Female orgasms are a broad subject that many men and women barely understand. Unlike men’s, which is evident in ejaculation, female orgasms are not so clear. This is why, in this article, we will be exploring female orgasms with an emphasis on squirting. We will pay special attention to: Is squirt pee? Come with us as we do so.
How Orgasms Work
Orgasms have been described as the most pleasurable sensation a person can feel. Sexually, they happen just before the relapse phase of sex. After a period of heightened sexual pleasure, an orgasm occurs, after which the body rests a bit and then continues to stay aroused.
Orgasms involve the genitals, some other organs and zones, like the breasts in women, and, of course, the pelvic floor muscles.
Female orgasms show a marked excitation of the pelvic floor muscles. These muscles seem to spasm and tighten during an orgasm—which may be the basis on which squirting happens.
Orgasms are, therefore, psychophysical. They involve the body as well as the mind.
Mandy, a twenty-eight-year-old who has been successfully having orgasms, both with a partner and when she goes solo, tells us the mind sure has a part to play when one experiences an orgasm.
“Your mind is at work just as much as your body.” She says. “This is not to say that orgasms come from your mind. Not exactly. Your body has to be pleasured to a threshold for an orgasm to happen. But your mind has to be there to help it.”
Joyce says: “My body and my mind have a part to play when I am going to have an orgasm. It is interesting, really.”
Kinds of Orgasms
Unlike men, women tend to have a lot of orgasmic forms. Here are some of the most common kinds of orgasms you will find in women:
1. Vaginal Orgasms
These are very common in women who are big on penetration, either with a partner or with a sex toy.
Vaginal orgasms are achieved through proper vaginal stimulation. They tend to be a little “violent.” That is to say, they feature spasming.
Lillie says: “During a vaginal orgasm, I find myself quaking and quaking. I can almost feel my body move itself. Especially the muscles in my pelvis.”
Mandy also says: “Vaginal orgasms are wild. Those are the kind to make you squirt hard.”
Vaginal orgasms can also be considered G spot Orgasms because they typically happen when one stimulates or excites the G spot, which is a very sensitive area in the vagina. It feels like a ridge when one touches it.
2. Clitoral Orgasms
Clitoral orgasms are also very common and seem to be a bit “localized,” at least in comparison to vaginal orgasms. That is to say, their effect is felt just around the vagina. There is no shaking of the entire body or pelvic region. And if there are, it is to a very small degree.
Clitoral orgasms tend to happen most during a solo session or when a woman is receiving head from her partner.
Ekaterina says: “Touching myself in all the right spots makes the orgasm better. My clitoris is my favored ally. It just deepens every sensation and makes me feel all the right things.”
Clitoral orgasms are easier to get. The clitoris contains just the right number of nerve endings. Except you are introducing too much pain, it is a bit difficult not to get it right when you touch your clitoris.
3. Mixed Orgasms
Of all the orgasm forms, this one seems to be the most turbulent, and for good reason. You know you are feeling this if you feel overwhelmed—if your entire body is shaking, and you can’t seem to stop that from happening. I have seen that happen with a number of women, and it truly looks beautiful.
Mixed orgasms are due to a combined orgasmic sensation with roots in both the vagina and the clitoris.
They happen during penetration and a little rubbing. Like what happens in the cowgirl position in some women. And when their partners put a hand to their clitoris when penetration is still on.
Junia says: “I have felt a combined orgasm before. It was one of the most thrilling things ever. Felt like my body was being pulled out of me. It turned into a full-body orgasm really fast. And yes, it happened in the cowgirl position.”
Is Squirting Pee?
To answer the main question, is squirt pee? We have to explore why squirting happens.
Squirting is just an expulsion of fluid from the vagina during an orgasm. It happens because a build-up of tension and pressure causes the muscles to spasm and push fluid out.
Squirt is, therefore, not pee.
It is just a combination of:
1. Fluid released by the skene’s gland
The skene’s glands are glands located close to the urethra in women. It is believed that during the height of an orgasm, these glands release a lot of fluid. These fluids are released under a lot of pressure—mimicking pee.
2. Vaginal Fluid
A lot of vaginal fluid may be seen in squirt too. So it is best to say that squirt is a combination of vaginal and urethral secretions.
3. Pee
There is a small chance that squirt may also contain pee. This is especially true in people who have some kind of urinary incontinence. During that spasming of their pelvic muscles, some urine may be expelled.
How to Squirt
Squirting is easy. You just have to find a way to reach an orgasm. You can do so by:
- Clearing your head: be sure that your head is clear and that you do not have any disturbing thoughts going on. Be in the mood.
- Touch the right spots: touch the right spots, and do so for long.
- Don’t stop when you feel pressure building up: a build-up of pressure means an orgasm is close. Experience it.
Summary
While squirt is not pee, it may contain small traces of pee.
