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What Does It Mean When He Kisses You A Lot

by | Love and Romance

Jul 4, 2022

You might be wondering, when a guy kisses you a lot, what does that mean? He obviously enjoys kissing you, but it might also have a deeper meaning. It is delightful to get a kiss from a guy you like because it implies he likes you too, and in many cases, he wants you to be his girlfriend.

Why does it Matter?

It matters because you think, and maybe even likely hope, that “his kissing you a lot” means something. 

Imagine this scenario

Emily only started going out with Jay a few weeks ago. He kissed her for the first time exactly two weeks from today. The kiss felt awkward, but there was something there. Something Emily can’t quite place a finger on. Subsequently, he began to kiss her a lot. All the time. Each time Emily met with Jay, he would plant a kiss on her lips. 

Emily is having doubts—he has not told her he likes her yet. But the kisses. The kisses are sending signals, and Emily does not know what to expect. If you were Emily, what would you do? 

Read: 10 Signs That He Enjoyed the Kiss

1. Take Your Own Feeling into Consideration

A lot of times, we let too many questions suck out all the fun in our lives. I understand that it is great to seek answers, especially in relationships, but sometimes, you just have to let the questions go for a while and enjoy yourself. 

What do you feel when he kisses you every time? Enjoy that feeling. If you feel great about his kisses, then kiss him. If you don’t, if they strike you as just utterly awkward, then you don’t have to kiss him back. 

Read: 10 Signs He Loves You by His Kiss

2. Observe Him

If you like him and want to know what exactly is going on, if his kissing you a lot is proof that he likes you very much, then the best thing to do right now is to observe him. Watch how he acts when he is around you. 

When a man loves a woman, he acts quite happy around her, as he is comfortable. I’ll tell you what: a comfortable man is the most loving man you can find. Men want to feel vulnerable, and when they find a spot where their vulnerability can be expressed, they hold on to that spot and don’t let go. 

Does he smile a lot? Does he move to touch your skin as often as possible? Then he likely really loves you, and his kisses are genuine. 

Read: What Does it Mean When He Closes His Eyes During Sex

3. Ask Him

The only way to find out if his kisses actually mean something is to hear him say it. 

You don’t have to ask him out of the blues, as this is going to make him feel cornered, and cornered men don’t like to stay in that spot. Be genuine about it. 

The best time to ask what he feels when he kisses you is right after one of such kisses. Pull your face back, look into his eyes, and ask: “You kiss me quite a lot. I have wanted to know what you feel when you kiss me?”

Or you can ask: “Why do you always kiss me?”

He will give you direct answers. 

Read: 10 Signs the Kiss Meant Something to Him

Action Plan

How can I enjoy myself without letting questions bug me?

How do I observe cues and body language?

Bottom Line

A lot of kisses from a guy can be frustrating because you may not be able to comprehend its implication or how to decode the reason. It is not easy to tell if he wants a relationship with you unless he tells you.

Many guys rarely state their intentions up front because they are afraid of what your response might be, and they do not want to lose you as a friend. For this reason, sometimes it is best to ask him why he likes to kiss you a lot.

Photo by Edward Cisneros on Unsplash

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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