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Weird Sex: The Strangest and Wildest Sex Acts to Add to Your Bucket List

by | Sensual Intimacy

Mar 2, 2023

Many people ask why one would want to have wild and weird sex, ever. The answer lies in a six-letter word: thrill. But you would not exactly know about this until you try. From BDSM to getting down in a public place, we’ve got ten of the strangest and wildest sex acts to add to your bucket list.


I will begin with BDSM because it isn’t so weird; most people are open to it. BDSM gained popularity around the time when Fifty Shades of Grey was released. 

Most people who saw the movie described it as being sensual and wild. And, of course, it is. You should see it too. 

BDSM is an acronym that means Bondage, Discipline, Submission, and Masochism. 

It basically involves having sex that includes these four elements. 

You can have BDSM with or without sex toys. 

If you cannot lay your hands on any sex toys, it is completely fine to improvise. For example, if you do not have sex wrist cuffs, you can improvise by using a leather belt. 

BDSM is fun, and you could give it a try. Definitely recommend.

Read: What does a Vagina Feel Like?

2. Role Playing

Role-playing is sex that involves both partners assuming roles of actual or fictional characters. 

In a typical role-playing scenario, one or both partner pretends to be something they really aren’t. 

For example, one can dress up like a doctor who is trying to have sex with a consenting patient. (No real-life doctor should have sex with a patient, please.) 

Role-playing works on the mind. It brings a person’s real-life fantasies to them. People have fantasies! And bringing the fantasies to life can make sex feel better. 

3. Sex in the Balcony

If you are afraid of heights, you will be exceptionally thrilled by this one. Remember that the purpose of having weird, wild sex in the weirdest places is so you can feel the thrill that comes with wild sex. 

On the balcony, while overlooking the street, you will definitely feel that thrill. This thrill hits even harder if there is the fear that someone might come around. 

In my experience, people reach orgasms faster when they are thrilled or scared during sex. 

So, of course, sex in the balcony is a weird kind of sex you should definitely add to your bucket list. Be careful not to fall off, though.

If you’ve have not read this article, check it out: 10 Best Places to Have Sex

4. Sex with Porn Playing in the Background

Porn is not always a bad thing. In a way, it may have the effect of making sex feel weirder and wilder, and better. So, when next you copulate, say on the couch or the bed, have some porn playing in the background. 

Carefully select the kind of porn that you and your partner both love. Make sure it contains a craving you both share. 

Try to do what the actors are doing. But remember that porn is not real life, and real-life sex is not to be compared to acting. Create a mental boundary between the expectations erotic movies gives you and the expectations you should have. 

5. Use Sex Toys

Sex toys add a lot of spice to sex. Anyone who has used them before can agree. When sex toys are mentioned, a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking it is a girl thing. Of course, it is not. There are a number of sex toys out there for guys. You may seek them out and give them a try.

Just be careful to make sure your sex toys are always clean. After every use, wash and sterilize the toys. Dirty toys can expose women to an infection of the vagina called bacterial vaginosis

One wild sex I recommend you to get is an anal plug. Anal plugs make anal sex quite easy. And anal sex is next on our list. 

{Read: How to Ride a Guy in 10 Easy Steps}

6. Anal Sex

Even though anal sex has gained a lot of popularity in heterosexual relationships, it isn’t quite the norm yet. So, of course, it can be considered weird. 

Sophie describes anal sex as being midway between pain and pleasure. 

“It provides a borderline feeling.” She says. “There isn’t any pain. But you know that one wrong move will bring pain close.”

Add anal sex to your wild sex bucket list. 

Be sure to use a lot of lube, though, whenever you have anal sex. To make things easier, you may also need to get anal plugs. 

7. Ice Cream, and Then Head

I first experienced this with my first girlfriend. She rubbed some ice cream over my penis and then began to give me head. The feeling was simply out of this world. 

You should try this out with your partner. Give them head by licking something sweet out of their genitals. 

Be sure that you don’t leave the sweets there. After sex, wash off properly until you both are perfectly clean. 

Read: Tips for Shaving Your Pubic Area | Guide for Women

8. Make a Video; Watch it Later

This is also another way to bond with your partner through weird sex. 

While getting down with your mate, make a video. And then see this video later on. Laugh about it. 

Making a video can be combined with all the other sex acts I have described. 

The first time you ever try BDSM, be sure to have it on record. Also, be careful not to let any of your video tapes leak. Last year, there were one too many video tape leaks in the US. Keep every video safe. 

9. Try a Threesome

This is most likely going to work in casual relationships, and I recommend it only be done in a no-strings-attached relationship. If your relationship is committed, you shouldn’t try or even suggest this. 

Talk to your partner about wanting a threesome. If they agree to it, then you can go right ahead. {Read: 10 Big Dick Problems Guys With Smaller Dicks Have No Idea About}

10. Have sex in a Public Space

Having sex in public is another sure way to feel a thrill. You just have to be really careful. 

I don’t suggest going into a public space yet to have sex. Instead, park your car wherever you want the sex to happen, and have sex in the car. 

That way, no one can sue you or anything. 

Weird sex is most often good sex. The thrill just makes it amazing. 

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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