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10 Ways to Turn a Guy On and Get Him Hard

by | Love

Jan 15, 2023

Do you want to know how to turn a guy on and get him hard effortlessly? This article seeks to improve your flirting skills so much that you start to turn any guy you like on. Check out these 10 ways to turn a guy on and get him hard. Do them right, and watch men you want burning with a passion towards you as well.

1. Be Yourself

No matter what else you read in this article, remember this; you have to be yourself. There‘s no turn-on more effective than a woman who knows how to wear her own skin. Guys look at her and are immediately struck by the desire to have her for themselves. 

Being yourself doesn’t mean being sassy. It means being confident—the kind of confidence that even you feel. But confidence is a tricky thing. There’s barely anyone in the world that is constantly confident. They’ll be days when you don’t feel too good about yourself. 

What then happens on these days?

Of course, you tell yourself that even though you don’t feel so good, you are bright inside and worthy of attraction. (Read: 10 Types of Women Every Guy Can’t Resist)

2. Do Your Make Up Right

Makeups can move you from a 5 to a 10, and I am not even bluffing. If you do your makeup right, you’ll notice that some of your most attractive facial features are going to be accentuated. For example, doing just the right amount of makeup on your nose can make it look as sexy as a model’s. 

I recommend you do some nude makeup every now and then. Nude makeup is makeup that doesn’t quite show. It is so unpronounced that if one does not pay attention, one may not be able to tell that you have makeup on. Sounds good, doesn’t it? Of course, it does. 

Related: 10 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On

3. Get Yourself Some Classy Yet Sexy Clothes

I am a firm believer in looking sexy and classy at the same time. You definitely can look sexy and classy enough to slay any man who comes around you. 

Get your style and fashion up. 

Get yourself clothes that fit just right, and make sure you love them. No matter how good your clothes look, if you do not love them, you won’t exude the feminine confidence that makes guys feel really drawn. 

It’ll just be another one of those clothes that look good on you. Many men will begin to get a hard-on from just looking at you.

4. Don’t Avoid Eye Contact

I know women are told to avoid eye contact, as it seems confrontational to a degree. This is not true. 

The opposite, actually, eye contact can be such a huge turn-on to guys. And I mean, a huge turn-on. 

When your gaze catches it, hold your eyes on his own until he takes his eyes away. 

Don’t be the one who bails out first. 

Chances are if he isn’t someone you have met before, he is going to laugh and walk up to you. 

Guys like a challenge and these challenges even show up in little things like eye contact. Turns him on. (Read: Turn On and Turn Off of Dating Platform

5. Give Him Sharp Glances

While you should hold your gaze when he is the one who looks at you first, you should look away when you are the one who looks at him first. 

Let’s say you are seated in a park, and you have had your eyes on him. Then, boom, he turns around and sees you. What do you do?

Of course, you take your gaze away for a while. And maybe even blush. 

This will make him feel like a man. Like he has struck someone out there with all his manliness. 

Give him two or three more of such glances, and you definitely are going to turn him on. 

6. Rub Your Thighs When You are with Him

This works better if you are putting on a short gown. Trust me; he will be so turned on that he may even want to rub your thighs, too. 

Want to know if you really are turning him on? Check out this article to find out how to tell if a guy has a boner

When you are talking to him, rub your thighs. Slowly. Gently. Moving around in circles. If he asks why you are doing that, tell him that you are just shy. And being shy can show up that way! 

7. Hug Him Longer

This works to turn just about any guy on. When next you go in for a hug, hug him for way longer than you usually would. And if you want to, you can rub his back. 

Slice through his defenses by telling him you miss him. 

Pull back from the hug, look at his face once more, and hug him again, this time even tighter. Believe me when I tell you that after you do this, he will get a hard-on.

You can share a laugh together to drive the point home even better. 

Read: 10 Turn Ons for Guys: The Things That Make Men Go Crazy

8. Lick Your Lips

This is one way you cannot miss when you are trying to turn him on and get him hard. I assure you, he will be turned on. To do this, hold eye contact for a while. And then glide your tongue across your lower and then upper lips. 

Be subtle about this, so he doesn’t suspect that you are on to something. 

I believe we all have to be subtle about these sorts of things. 

To make him hard, do this while you are rubbing your thighs. Most of the turn-on ways in this article go together. You can do two at the same time, and it’ll still work just fine. 

9 Pick an Invisible Speck from his Face

Most of the time, when you are trying to make him hard, you will need to initiate some form of physical contact. 

The perfect physical contact opportunity comes when you touch his beard—basically anywhere on his face. 

Laugh about it, and he will get the memo. (Read: 10 Tips to Make Men Horny From Just Listening to You

10. Punctuate Your Words with Silence

Or, at best, speak slowly. Your speech should not be rushed when trying to turn him and make him hard. Speak slowly, having a weird emphasis on every word. 

Turning a guy on so he gets hard is easy. You only need some time. 

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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