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10 Ways to Jerk Off Like a Pro

by | Sensual Intimacy

Jul 15, 2023

Jerking off does not always have to be boring. You can add more fun to it and have nerve-jerking orgasms each time you jerk off. This is a guide to ten ways to jerk off. Here, we show you what you may have been doing wrong all along.

1. Do not Depend on Porn

Porn is great and all and may even have benefits to make you more closer to orgasms. But porn has a way of messing things up for you by building some kind of dependence. You don’t have to be dependent on anything when you jerk off. 

To know whether or not you are dependent on porn, try to jerk off without seeing any. 

How does that go for you? Well? Then you may not be a dependent yet. Goes bad? Then there is a chance that you are a dependent. 

2. Let Go of the Guilt

Many men who experience guilt when jerking off never get it right. This is because guilt is such a powerful feeling and can make one insensitive to pleasure. 

It helps to know that jerking off does not make you less of a man and more of something you are not. 

It is just a means by which you can explore your own pleasure zones and be there for yourself. 

Read: How to Make a Girl Cum

3. Get the Right Lube

When you want to jerk off, you should know that lube matters. A lot of people believe it does not, but heck, it does.

Some lube is too viscous they end up causing a lot of friction. Others are too thin. They end up doing nothing except hurt you. 

Some others just smell so strongly that they end up distracting you. 

The right lube, hence, is not going to be too thin or too viscous and will not have such a strong smell. 

I like to recommend olive oil since it has no smell and will almost never burn anyone’s skin. 

A lot of men end up choosing lubes that can be harmful to their skin. Do not be that guy, no matter what. 

4. Choose the Right Position

The position you choose to start with matters. A lot of guys usually opt into standing. This is not the best position to start with.

The best to start with is a sitting position, having your legs spread apart.

This is very comfortable. You don’t have to deal with pain in your groin or legs and don’t have to look down. 

This is only a suggestion, though, which means you can go on with any position you think works for you. Just be sure there is little to no pain sensation in these positions.

Read: 10 Reasons Why Women Moan

5. Start Slow

Just like sex, jerking off is an art that should begin slowly and gradually become something beautiful. You do not have to rush into it, or you risk making the activity stale and boring more like a chore. 

You know you are not doing it right when you think: “I just have to get this over with.” 

No, you don’t have to. You have got to enjoy it because all forms of sexual pleasure ought to be enjoyed. 

By starting slow, I mean start by touching very sensitive areas of your dick. Run a finger along the borders of your shaft. 

Also, run your finger along the borders of the head of your penis. 

6. Put your Imagination to Work

Now more than ever, you need to get into your head and cull out the most amazing and erotic ideas. 

This is where porn comes into play. You can see some soft or hardcore porn, or, if you want, you can avoid it altogether and do the imagining yourself. 

It helps to think about your best sex or think about someone with whom you have done the wildest things. 

This works because men, unlike women, are very dependent on sight and imagination in bed. If a man does not see or imagine it, there is such a small chance that he will enjoy what he is doing. 

You have to see it. 

For people who are dependent on porn and would rather not use it, I suggest you read some erotic books. These books contain descriptions that are very vivid. You can check out a couple of them on this link.

Read: How to Finger a Girl | 10 Fingering Tips

7. The Loose Grip

Your grip on your penis has a part to play in how fast or how slow you are going to reach orgasm. 

The loose grip works perfectly at the start. With this, you only need to grip the shaft of your penis with a circle made from your thumb and your index finger. 

Now, stroke very slowly. Stroke through the entire length of your penis. 

A lot of guys get it wrong here, as they only concentrate on stroking certain areas of their penises. Granted, there are areas that are more sensitive than others. 

At the same time, you just have to get an array of sensations if you are to enjoy this. 

8. The Tighter Grip

Further down the line, as you jerk off, you will have to try out the tighter grip. 

This is such an amazing technique you should do because it gets all the nerves that supply the shaft of your penis in action. 

That soft ‘pressure mimics the pressure exerted on a vagina when you have sex with a woman.

The tighter grip uses not only your thumb and index finger but all your fingers. Make a circle with your thumb and all other fingers. 

Read: How to Gently Pop Her Cherry

9. Alternate Between Grips

The intensity of sex and masturbation largely depends on the degree of diverseness. So, you have to alternate between tight grips and loose ones, depending on what you feel. 

10. Move your Legs

Of course, masturbation is supposed to mirror sex as much as possible. So, you should move your legs as you jerk off. 

You should also touch zones in your body that are known to really turn you on: like your nipples.

Summary

Masturbation can be enjoyed, maybe as much as sex.

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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