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10 Ways to Get Into His Head

by | Love

May 19, 2024

Getting into a man’s head is way easier than people say. A man is typically a more self-aware version of a woman mentally. That is to say, he thinks in a way that is more inward. To get in any man’s head, you have to figure out how he thinks.

1. Be yourself

The first one of the most important ways to get into a man’s head is to be yourself. 

Men are usually very easy to please. 

As long as he likes you or he thinks you’re physically attractive, you really don’t have to do too much to stay in his head because by just being attractive, you have secured a spot in his head. 

So don’t try too hard. Just be yourself and feel happy emotions.

The happier you feel, the more you’re going to pull him close to you so that you become all he thinks about. 

2. Compliment him more

Women like to say that men are like babies; in some ways, and I mean in more ways than one, men are actually like babies.  

Which means most men crave to be heroes. 

I mean, just do a small survey yourself. Ask a man what he wants to be in the future, and ask a child where he wants to be in future. Their answers are both going to be suggestive of the fact that they want to be truly celebrated and appreciated— more like heroes.

You are definitely going to secure a spot in his head. And not just any; spot you’re going to secure the most favored of spots in his head if you are able to make him feel like a hero. 

Compliment him. Compliment the small things about him, compliment the big things about him, even those things that he feels do not matter. 

3. Be touchy and flirtatious

You should be very touchy if you want to stay in a man’s head. Men are usually very compelled by touch and mostly feel very drawn towards a woman who touches them adequately. 

Do as much as you can to break the touch barrier. Make him feel warm, and make him feel truly comfortable. 

The more comfort he feels around you and about you, the more you’re going to get in his head. 

In his spare time, he’s going to think about all those beautiful and serene emotions he felt when you were around him.

4. Entice him

This works very well if you know what he wants from you. 

You entice a man by promising him something that he truly desires from you. 

Let’s say he wants to have sex with you, and you’re very sure of this. The proper way to entice him is to make him feel like he can get what he wants while keeping a safe distance so he doesn’t snatch it. 

Make him feel like you want to have sex with him, like you can’t stop thinking about the nasty things you both could do together, but don’t give it to him quickly. 

At least not yet. That way, you are in his mind like a very powerful memory. 

We remember thoughts that provoke emotional responses and powerful feelings. 

We also remember people who are able to make us feel some type of way. 

You are going to be on his mind for a while, and he’s going to remember you for extended periods if, when he thinks about you, he can experience any emotion.

Read: How to Tell a Guy You Want to Make Love

5. Stun him

You stun someone by triggering an emotional response that makes him ask a lot of questions. You do this by being weird and having very weird and wild ideas—especially ideas about your relationship and where the next date should happen. 

Let’s say he asks you where you would like to go for your next date. Tell him someplace that makes him wonder: what kind of girl is that? 

Of course, it is going to excite him. But it is going to make him ask a lot of questions too. The more questions a man asks you, the more he is going to have you on his mind. 

Do a lot of thrilling things with him. Make him remember every date just the way it happened. That’s how you get into his head. 

6. Be mysterious

Men love a mysterious woman. If you ever want to get into his head, you have to make him do some work to figure you out. 

No one loves someone they have already figured out. These kinds of people become very boring to be around. Eventually, one loses interest in being with them. 

But a person one has to do some work to figure out? Such a person is usually heaven to be around, and a man will often have that kind of woman stuck in his head. 

He thinks about her: the things she likes and the things she doesn’t. 

7. Make him question his stance

Make him question his stand in your life. Make him wonder what he really is. That makes him question whether he’s a friend or a lover. Just make him ask himself questions.

The more questions you are able to drive him to ask himself, the more you’re going to stay on his mind. 

More questions mean he’s going to be typically more obsessed with you. 

Read: How to Make Love to a Man

8. Ghost for a while

Seriously, every now and then, just take a break and ghost him for a while. It makes them obsessed, I assure you. 

9. Make him happy

Positive emotions can have the impact you need. Show him genuine interest, offer support, share laughter, appreciate his efforts, and create memorable, joyful experiences together.

When you make him happy this way, you force him to think about you a lot. 

10. Nurture him

Again, men are like babies and children. They desire nurturing. So, by all means, make him feel welcome and loved.

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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