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8 Ways to Get Him to Like You

by | Meeting People, Moving On

Dec 2, 2023

Getting him to like you is much easier than you think. I know this because I have helped women get that cute guy into their lives by just making small changes. There is a motion that you have to change yourself for him to like you. I am debunking this claim by presenting you with these 10 ways to get him to like you.

1. Don’t Talk a Lot

Women who talk a lot may be cool to be around at first. But sooner or later, they get tiring, and one is only irritated by their being around. 

If you want him to like you, don’t talk much, especially about yourself. 

Instead, do what I call: “The Do It Yourself” tactic. 

If you want to do or say something, don’t. Just get him to do it. 

For example, if you want to talk about your childhood, don’t do it. Ask him about his childhood. 

By getting him to do things you would naturally want to do, you bring him into being in your shoes. 

Your shoes are soaked in love and attraction, aren’t they? That is just the way he is going to be soaked in attraction sooner or later. 

He is going to like you. 

2. Be Vulnerable

This is going to be a bit hard if you don’t want things to escalate fast. But I assure you that nothing is going to escalate when you do it right. 

Be vulnerable only when you have to. And do it as a means to make him vulnerable, too. 

Men do not let go of their vulnerability unless they feel like it is being reciprocated. And even at that, they won’t be the first ones to be vulnerable. 

Be vulnerable around him more. 

Tell him how you feel, but don’t seem desperate. And sooner or later, he is going to do the same to you. 

What do you think is going to happen when he begins to talk about his feelings more? 

Of course, he is going to get more drawn to you. 

That is to say, he is going to like you. 

Read: How to Approach Your Gym Crush and Get Them to Like You

3. Increase Your Value

Increasing your value is going to make him want you. 

This is because men want women who are high value. They are biologically wired to, as these women have traits that every man looks out for in his mate. 

We have an article up about how to be a high-value woman, and you may gain a lot by going through it after this. 

In the meantime, you can become a high-value woman by:

  • Embracing your femininity: Yes, we live in a time when being a woman is quite a threat. But be a woman. Be the feminine one who is in liking of her womanhood. 
  • Being around fellow high-value women: This works by showing him you are high-value without him even getting to interact with you first. 
  • Nurture: a feminine woman knows how to nurture. Nurture him good and he will want to be around you more. 

4. Get Him in His Competition Mode

Men are wired to compete somehow. You will not see the true manliness of a man until it is time to compete, especially if this competition is with another man. 

It is why men can spend hours on the computer screen playing games. 

They will do anything to make sure they don’t lose. And when they lose, they will do even more to make sure the margin is not wide. 

Get him in competition mode by showing him other men want you. 

When he gets jealous, he is going to seek after you. He is going to want your time more. He wouldn’t want to be on the losing side. 

Read: How To Tell a Guy You Like Him

5. Get Him to Want to Please You

Do this by switching sides. I know that right now, you are the one who is always running to please him. 

Don’t be that person anymore. Instead, switch sides. 

Get him to want to please you. That is to say, get him to that spot where all he thinks about is impressing you. 

You can do this in two ways:

  • Disapproving what he says or does: for example, he sends you a picture. You don’t go about swooning. You compliment but leave a humorous tease there. You can say that your picture does look good; you just have to work on that beer belly. 
  • Promising a reward: you can promise to do something he loves if he does something for you. 

Be certain that a number of men are going to sniff this out as a shit test. If he is smart enough to sniff it out, then stop. 

6. Seduce With Your Fashion Sense

Men are very driven by what they see. If you want him to like you, then it is apparent that you seduce him with your fashion sense. 

Dress to kill each time you are around him. 

Be available to show a lot of skin. 

Let him look at you and drool over you. That way, he is going to be somewhat obsessed and is going to show it by trying to please you more. 

Read: 15 Ways to Tell a Guy You Like Him in School

7. Be There More

When he needs you, be there for him more. 

It is a lonely world sometimes for men. And you would accept this if you have been very close to any man. 

Men find it very hard to talk about their feelings. They would rather sob over their feelings than talk to someone. 

The best one can do is be there for the man more. When he begins to see you as someone who can be there for him, he will open up to you more and get to like you. 

8. Flirt

Flirting remains one of the most effective ways to make him like you. 

Become a master flirt, and don’t hold back when you are with him. Subtly, break the touch barrier. Show him why he has got to have or want you. 

Getting a guy to like you is easy. 

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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