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20 Things to Say to a Woman During a Call to Make Her Wet and Longing for You

by | Sensual Intimacy

Apr 6, 2024

All bad boys know that a phone call can be a great tool to set lust aflame in a woman’s heart and have her longing for you every minute the call lasts. All bad boys use phone calls to their advantage. All bad boys land women who are struck with raging desire. And they bed these women. So, why don’t you become a bad boy already and tap into all your potential to woo and bed women? In this article, we show you twenty things to say to a woman during a call to get her wet and longing for you.

1. Can we switch to video call? I think you should see what talking to you has done to my dick

The bad boy is daring, and that is what makes women love him. If you want to have her dripping, you have got to be the bold guy. Be in control of the call. If you leave the control in her hands, she will lead you to the friendzone. 

So, take charge. Have her know what you want is sexual, and she will follow your lead

She will go, “If this guy is this bold, he must know what he is doing.”

Tell her you want her to see your dick because it’ll help push the conversation forward. Your dick is the prize at this point. 

Like urban poet and rapper Kendrick Lamar said in his song, something all bad boys know: “This dick ain’t free.”

2. Too bad we’re talking over the phone. I wish you were here so I could do more than just talk.

Have her wish for something when you call her. This is what this message does. Wishes create a tension. If you wish for something, you are compelled by a strong desire. 

Comepell her with strong desire. Let her know that the dick is here, and she can get it. But not that easy. 

She is immediately going to think about sex, and throughout the call, she is going to harbor the imagination of having you inside her. 

That is enough to make any woman wet

3. Sometimes, I imagine what your voice will sound like when you are screaming my name. What makes you scream? Tongue to your clitoris? 

Now, you are coming off as the guy who understands his seduction game. And you should come off as that guy whenever you want a woman to get wet from just hearing you talk over the phone. 

This is going to make her imagine two things:

First, she is going to imagine what your tongue on her clitoris will feel like. Of course, this is a statement that sparks a very wild imagery. 

And then she is going to imagine what you will do to make her scream.

He must really know how to fuck, she’d think. And yes, she will conjure up an image of a guy who knows how to fuck. It is this image that will have her dripping wet for you. 

4. Do you like the sound of men moaning into your ears? Because I almost want to moan right now, but there is no one to make me. 

You are using imagery to your advantage again during the call. You are supposed to. As many times as it takes to get her wet during this call. 

With this, you are also doing something I call mirroring. 

You are casting your own desires on her without making yourself seem desperate. 

You are saying: “I want you.”

Most women will read that as: “He must really want me. His desire is contagious. So I want him too.”

Women like to be objects of desire to men they may have little feelings for. If you show her how much you desire her, she is going to grow wetter for sure. 

She will become so into the call. 

I am leaving these explanations so you don’t just speak out what I am saying. But know why you’re saying them, and perhaps, make your own words yourself. 

5. You sound like daddy’s little girl, but I know there is a slutty woman hiding in there, and I cannot wait to bring her out because she should be free, flying, having fun. 

Now you are baiting her. This is the perfect thing to say to a woman who has a very bad side. 

Women bring out their bad sides when they are comfortable. 

What you’re about to say is going to make her so comfortable he finds nothing wrong in showing you her bad side. 

She is going to be aroused, for sure. Wet. And chances are, she might go on to lead the session. 

6. What are you putting on right now? Is there enough space in it for my fingers to glide in there?

Now, and again, you are making her imagine things. Vivid imagery is your best game plan if you are trying to get a woman wet and longing for you. 

You will feel horny, too, if a woman tells you that she wants to have the cap of your penis in her mouth. You’d immediately imagine it. And it is that imagination that counts. That is what comes off as very arousing. 

7. I have heard that there are more creamers than squirters. And to be honest, I love it when women cream. I love all that cream smudged on my dick so that it begins to look like a pie. 

You are putting thoughts in her head again. And this time you are doing more than put thoughts. You are driving her to explore herself. This is the kind of thing to say to a woman when you want her touching yourself.

She will immediately remember that she has a vagina that can cream and will try to bring out that cream.

8. Are you on birth control? I would really like to make a cream pie. 

This is guts. You have to show her that you have got guts. It is guts that makes a woman wants to be with a man. It is guts that makes her aroused. 

And who doesn’t like a cream pie? I don’t think any woman who is on birth control dislikes it. It is the reason why they are on birth control in the first place. 

Cream pies are great, and she wants them. So, she will be aroused

9. Can I send you a picture of my dick when the call ends and then call you back so that we talk about how much you want all of that meat stuffed inside you?

Now, you are putting her in a tight spot. And to be honest, whenever you want to make a woman feel like she has been cornered, she falls deeply for you and tries to live that desire by having sex. 

Another great side of saying this to her over a call is that you can tell how deeply she likes you. 

If she ends the call and calls you back to talk about your dick, then you know that she must like you very much. 

10. Can you suck dick good or stand a man who likes to eat pussy?

Now you are challenging her to prove to you that she is a bad girl. And like I mentioned earlier, women love a man who can challenge them and bring out that side they hide from other men. 

The question: “Can you suck dick good?” It is like a red carpet that introduces her bad side into the conversation. 

If she says yes, you can go on to ask her about the best dick she has sucked. 

If you’re dealing with a smart woman, I bet she is going to evade the question by throwing another question back at you. 

Something like: “What do you think?”

Don’t answer that. Instead, play her game. Throw her a short but very vivid story. 

You can now say something along the lines of: “I do not know what to think for sure. But chances are, I will make you scream when I put my tongue on your clitoris.”

I don’t know any woman who will not be turned on by this. 

11. I am just saying that I like to eat pussy. I love to eat it so much I will choose between your legs over food because your pleasure is my food. 

Yeah. You are letting her see how bad you are. She is going to give up any resistance because she now knows that you would not judge her for any reason. 

She is going to allow herself to get dripping wet for you, just so you don’t stop coming in with the vocal juice. 

12. Are you a bad girl? Everyone says they’re a bad girl until they find a man who pulls their hair from behind and makes them scream. 

Yes. Paint that scene. Show her you are a man who’s very kinky. Women like men who are kinky and often get wet by just listening to these men.

It is why I advise people in relationships to explore each other’s kinks and people in the seduction phase to talk about them. 

13. Well, we could make a movie—an adult movie. Hopefully, the neighbors don’t think someone is dying in there because I will make you scream. 

Yeah. Show her that you mean business. 

One thing special about this one is that it breeds some anxiety. You’ll be surprised that women get turned on when they feel some anxiety. 

This is called tension. Put them in a position where they don’t know if to feel good about this or feel bad about it. 

Most women will get wet for sure. 

14. Tell me, what do you want done to your body?

This is an open cheque. This is to pull on all her kinks and her wishes so that they come to the surface and do the work. 

This time, it isn’t entirely you who makes her wet. It is her own imagination that makes her feel aroused. 

As she tells you what she wants done to her body, she imagines it. You don’t stand as much of a chance of arousing a woman as she arouses herself. 

15. You’re perfect. I don’t know if your arch is. It might be. I want to see. I want it shooting pleasure into my face. 

Tell me any woman who will not get wet when you say this to her, and I will show you a woman who may not be completely straight. 

16. Tell her a story about your best sex—If she is a side chick. 

Yes, go all in and do you. Be as expressive as possible. 

Ask her what she wants to hear about your sex life. This is her kink, and you should tell her a story that reflects what she wants to hear done to her. 

17. What have you heard about men who have very big dicks?

Yeah. By all means, bro, please stroke that imagination over a phone call. Imagine her imagination to be her clitoris and stroke it. 

18. What’s your clitoris like? Can I poke at it with the tip of my tongue or pull your vulva between my lips?

You are promising her a great time with this one and building a lot of tension. It is this tension that makes things great. 

19. Ask that she tells you about her best sex

Yes, now is her time to tell her story. Tell her to be as expressive as possible so that she drowns in a world of her own lust. 

You stand a better chance with women when you can get them to arouse themselves for you. 

20. Get Creative

Do you now get what to do? Of course, you should get in your A game and get creative. Make her wet over that phone call!


You can always arouse a woman over a call and make her drip. You just have to be one of the bad boys to do it. 

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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