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10 Things Guys Do When They Like You

by | Meeting People, Moving On

Nov 24, 2022

It should never be in doubt that when guys like a girl, little things start to matter to them. Many guys are passionate about relationships, so it makes sense that they tend to do certain things when they like you.

They begin to put a little more and then much more effort into making her happy and fulfilled. These things guys do when they are attracted to you range from opening up about their mood to making you a part of their weekend plan.

Here are some of the cute things guys do when they like a girl.

1. He Opens Up About His Bad Moods

Many women are under the impression that guys are closed up and hate to talk about their feelings. This is not true. When a man loves a woman, he tears down his emotional wall and opens himself to her. 

He becomes able to talk about his moods, even when these moods have deep roots strangers should not gain access to. 

This, in many ways, is cute—it is the stone upon which love is built. I describe love as the ability to open oneself up while covering and nurturing the other person. 

2. He Pays Attention

Lakisha told Whatsdalatest: “When a guy likes you, he pays attention. If you are ever in doubt of whether or not he likes you, look at how much he notices, the cues he sees for what they really are.” 

This is true. 

A lot of guys become cute empaths when they like a girl. It becomes easier for them to know what is wrong or what is right with the woman’s mood. 

Related: 10 Things Guys Secretly Find Attractive

3. He Asks a Lot of Questions

When guys like you, they are more likely to ask a lot of questions—and in the cutest ways possible. 

This happens because:

  • They are interested in you and want to know you better. 
  • They pay attention to your expressions, and so the slightest changes make them want to find out what is up and, you know, come to aid. 
  • A lot of guys are naturally inquisitive when in love. Someone said a guy in love is something like a child, and children just love asking questions. 

4. He Sets Up Dates Often

When a guy likes a girl, another cute thing he is going to do is set up a date with her as often as possible. This is his way of saying: “Hey, I like you, so I will keep trying to spend time with you as often as possible.” 

Two dates in the space of one week is a heavy signal that he likes you. Three? Then his loving you should not be in doubt.

5. He Buys You Gifts

Guys like to gift women they love. If you have been admired by many guys, you will agree that almost every one of those guys gifted you something once or twice. 

While gifting loved ones is not necessarily a guy thing, it would seem that guys are more inclined to give things to women they appreciate. 

The gift can be anything when he likes you. Cute clothes, something of little significance, another pair of shoes—anything at all. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that you have been on his mind, and he thinks you are worth sacrificing. 

Read: 10 Biggest Turn-Ons For Men You Should Know

6. He Sends Romantic Messages Often

Guys can be very romantic when the situation is right. All it takes is a girl he likes and feels safe around, and then boom, his romantic side is out. 

He will usually express this feeling for her by doing the classic romantic text thing. He will send her romantic text messages throughout the course of his day. 

Usually, the pattern is one text in the morning and one when he is just about to sleep. 

7. He Calls More

Zinga, a young man living in South Africa, told us: “When I like a woman, texting is not enough. It becomes too shallow; I want to hear her voice more. And even more than that, I want to see her. This means; more phone calls, and eventually, more video calls.”

A man who loves you will call you often. You will not have to sit back and wait for him to call most of the time. He will just call. And often, he will ask for a video call. 

This indicates high interest in your person. He likes you; that is just it. 

8. He Surprises You

Surprise Surprise! Surprise! For some reason, all of us are predisposed to surprising people we hold dear. 

I have a weird theory about why this is so: since we know how great surprises make us feel, we are inclined to replicate this good feeling within people we love by surprising them as well. 

When a guy likes a girl, he surprises her a lot in many little cute ways. For example, he can show up in her city unannounced or have someone deliver a handwritten letter to her. 

Read: 22 Cute Things Men Do That Women Secretly Love

9. He Makes You Part of Their Weekend Plans

One of the many ways guys express their affection towards a woman is to include this woman in their weekend plans. 

Even though this may be subconscious, it is usually a strong indicator that he likes you and wants you around him. 

Check out this article to learn more about things guys do subconsciously when they like you. (You are in for a surprise). 

When next a man includes you in his weekend plans, understand that he includes you in the most fun part of his week. Eventually, he will try to include you for the rest of his life. 

10. He Engages Your Social Media More

A guy who likes you will engage your social media more and in a romantic way. For example, he can mention you more on posts that are love inclined. 

He will establish a rapport online.

For most guys, this is a way of suggesting that you both become public and more defined. Although this is not always the case, I have seen it happen a number of times. 

Guys will often do many cute things and give subtle cues when they like a girl. All you need to do is pay attention, and when you notice these things, you know instinctively that he likes you.

Read: 10 Things That Matter Most to Guys

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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