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15 Signs to Recognize a Girl Who’s Looking for a Hookup

by | Love

Feb 16, 2023

Ever had a one-night stand? Then you must know that it is not a myth. If you’re seeking to hook up, you may have thought about women looking for a hookup with men they have just met. Recognizing a girl looking to get down is pretty straightforward when you know what you’re doing. Here are 15 signs to help you easily get your next one-night stand. 

In this article, we explore some different signs to look for to recognize a girl who is looking for a hookup. To learn how to recognize a girl looking for a hookup, read this article from start to finish.

1. You Met on Tinder

This does not mean any woman you meet on Tinder is trying to hook up with you. But more often than not, to face the fact women on Tinder are just trying to hook up with you. 

Don’t be too scared or too careful when interacting with these women. Flirt, and see where it leads. 

2. She Insists the Meeting Must Happen Indoors

If you miss this sign, you probably should not be having a one-night stand in the first place. 

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and they know it. They know that it is left to them, at least to a high degree, to decide when sex happens. So, they will often choose a very secluded place when they want to meet you. (Read: What Do Guys Think About The Girls They Hook Up With)

3. They Schedule the Meeting for Late in The Evening

Of course, in the evenings, we are most comfortable. And we are more open to wanting sex. 

A woman who is horny knows this. And when she wants to hook up with you, she is going to insist on hanging out in the evening. 

If she plans to sleep over, she will schedule the meeting for much later. The later, the better. 

4. She Wants to Get Drunk

Alcohol, whether as spirits or red wine, is potent enough to get us into that zone where we care less about what people think or say. 

This is why a horny woman who is trying to hook up will insist that she take some alcohol. Being drunk is one effective sign of a girl looking for a hookup.

Sometimes, she will insist that you take alcohol as well—you know, such that not only she is high. 

5. She wants to Smoke

This works the same way as alcohol. It is even more preferred by most women because, unlike alcohol, weed does not taste bad. It may even make one feel much calmer than alcohol would. 

If she even does the slightest bit as ask if you have any weed on you, best believe she just wants to hook up. 

Spice things up. With just a little humor, ask why she needs weed. 

“What do you need weed for? Are you trying to get in my pants already?”

Chances are, she is just going to laugh.

Read: 14 Ways to Ensure a Casual Relationship Doesn’t Get Too Serious

6. She Shows Up in Very Revealing Clothes

Women understand how men are driven by their eyes. They know that when a man sees something very revealing, he may be compelled to want sex. 

So, a woman who is trying to hook up with you will often show up looking very sexy. Her clothes will be ones to show off a lot of skin. 

7. She Asks What You Think of Protection

Women who have intentions to hook up with you will often try to survey the grounds. This means they will want to know what they are getting themselves into before going right in. 

One of the ways they do this is by asking if you have an aversion to protection. The conversation can be so subtle you will almost have no clue what is going on. If you agree to have an aversion for protection, then you have lost her. 

Whenever a woman asks, you should agree to like protection.

8. She asks about Your Body Count

This is also part of her safety measures. A low body count means you are quite safe. A high one? Even though it might impress her at first because she knows you must have some sexual experience, it is going to put her off. 

To her, having sex with you is not worth the risk. You could be a breeding place for STDs. (Read: 10 Signs a Woman is Horny Around You)

9. She Talks About Sex in Detail

We often talk about what we feel, and that includes even horniness. If you are angry about something, your conversations are going to be bordered around what has made you angry. 

In the same way, a woman who is horny will have conversations that border sex. Sometimes, she is going to be direct about it. Other times, she is going to be quite subtle.

10. She Looks Around a Lot

If you are in an enclosed place with a woman who is planning to hook up with you, she is going to have her eyes all over the room. 

Why? She is searching for cameras. Women know that men will often want to make videos of sex, and so avoid it. 

11. She is Restless

Believe it or not, you can recognize a girl is looking for a hookup when she gets restless. A woman who just wants to hook up will alternate between extremities in mood. Sometimes, she is going to be very hyped up. And at other times, she will be quite sad and maybe even restless. 

Restlessness is, however, one of my most common observations in women who want to hook up. (Read: How To Build Up Tension Before Sex)

12. She Grows Quiet

When you meet with a woman who is trying to have sex with you, at first, she is going to be restless. But over time, when she suspects you have gotten horny, too, she will grow very quiet, leaving you to continue from there. 

13. She Gets Touchy

Another sign of recognizing a girl who’s looking for a hookup is being touchy. Of course, a woman who is horny will try to touch you, and I mean, touch you a whole lot. She knows her touch on your skin will turn you on and so will not hold it back. 

14. She Calls You With Her Eyes

You will know, and I mean instinctively know, that she is calling you with her eyes. Somehow, you would. 

Read: 10 Ways to Focus on a Girl’s Breasts & Make Her Orgasm

15. She asks if you would love to have sex. 

Final Thought

When a woman is horny, there are going to be a number of unmistakable signs. Somehow, you will know she is trying to hook up with you. While you may think it is not easy to know, it isn’t. In order to recognize a horny woman looking for a hookup, you have to be observant. There are plenty of ways of recognizing horny women.

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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