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6 signs she is giving it to you tonight

by | Meeting People, Moving On

May 4, 2024

The good thing about dating women is that they will always leave trails and signs in the way. If you are attentive enough, you will be able to spot these and make your move. This is what makes it appear as though bad guys always get the girls. They don’t! They only know how to watch the signs, leaving when the signs tell that nothing is forthcoming and staying when the signs leave the promise of intimacy. In this article, we help you read the signs. Here are unmistakable signs that she is giving you tonight. 

1. You both had a remarkable first encounter

The thing is, women know if they will have sex with you from the first encounter. This is what men don’t know. 

Whenever a woman meets a new man, she places him in one of three categories. 

The first category consists of men she knows she will have sex with. She knows for sure that it will happen in just a matter of time. 

Men who fall into this category are usually men who have such a good sex appeal. A woman looks at a man like this and smiles because she knows she wants him. 

The second category of men is men who might stand a chance. The woman will usually need two or three more meetings to be sure whether she wants him or not. There is a fire, but the spark is absent, leaving the flame too small. 

What all men who are in this category have got to do is step up their game. 

In a sequel to this article, titled: “How to Climb Up Her List,” I show you how to move from being the man she isn’t sure she wants to be the man she wants to get by all means possible. 

The third category of men is men she knows she does not want. These men have a very low sex appeal and will sooner or later be cast into the friend zone. 

Think about the first time you met this woman. This is about where she must have placed you in her list of potential mates. If the meeting was impeccable, she is surely going to give it to you sooner or later. 

Read: How to have sex with a friend

2. She is dressed loosely

Women know how to make things easy for men. This is just the truth. Whenever a guy complains that a woman is making things hard for him, I can immediately tell that the woman doesn’t like him.

If a woman likes you, it’ll be so easy to have her. She will make sure of that. She will give you signals. And one of those signals you should not miss is her dressing. 

Loosely dressed means ease. Things are going to be easy when it is time to get one. Unbuckle one strap, and all her clothes are on the floor. 

Aretha says: “On nights when I can tell I will have him, or that he will have me, I dress quite loosely. This is to make things very easy. We women have our ways, and it is weird that men don’t even know.”

Daria laughed at this and said: “Yes, I agree. The men don’t seem to know. But we choose colors perfectly. When we put on a red gown that is short, what do you think we are doing? We want to be in your eyes so much you cannot look away. This is how we flex up on this game.”

Pay attention. 

If she is dressed loosely, compliment the dress and make a joke about taking it off. What is her reaction?

3. She is wearing an aphrodisiac

Aphrodisiacs are materials and perfumes that can drive one to seek sex more. If a woman is out to get a man on a particular night, she will turn to aphrodisiacs. These are surely going to drive the man insane and make him want her.

Complement her perfume and ask if she wore that specially for you. If her response is yes, know that she is going to give in tonight. You are lucky!

Kevin says: “When my woman puts on an aphrodisiac, I can tell she wants me.”

4. She insists on being alone

If she insists on being alone with you, you should know for sure that she is literally begging you to come have her. 

For example, if you both are on a date. And all of a sudden, she says something like: “I am getting quite uncomfortable; can we take this someplace else? Do you stay around?”

That is her asking for sex. 

If you both are at your place, she may say something like: “I don’t know where your room is and you haven’t showed me.”

You should learn one thing about women, and it is subtlety. 

Women are very subtle, but the message remains clear to guys who know their way around this game.

Read: How to have sex on your first date

5. She breaks the touch barrier

The touch barrier is what barricades the nonsexual phase from the sexual phase of any relationship.

When a woman begins to break the touch barrier, it should tell you that she is starting to enter the sexual phase with you. 

She likes you more than you would like to admit. 

If she invites you into that private place and begins to touch you. It doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual contact. It can be anything. 

But trust me, it tells a story—a story that she wants you. Women are quite antagonistic to touches from men they don’t like, so if she touches you, it means she likes you

6. She encourages your touch

If she encourages your touch rather than put your hands away, then keep going. There is nothing to fear. This is where you get lucky. 

A lot of guys don’t know this. This is why they must learn how to initiate sex for the first time. 

Women almost always know when they will be giving in!

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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