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30 Best Sexual Questions for a Drinking Game

by | Sensual Intimacy

Jun 7, 2023

Truth or drinking games are supposed to be one thing: wild. Don’t be the one who spoils the fun by asking boring questions. Be the one who keeps it intense by asking all the right questions. Here are some sexual questions for a drinking game, which you can ask during a truth or dare session.

1. What sexual thing do you lie about the most? 

Everyone has their lies when it comes to sex. No better time to bring your date to talk about theirs than when they are drunk, sober, or tipsy. Or maybe they are scared to break the rules of the game. 

2. What are your kinks? 

Still, not everyone has been able to bring themselves to talk about their kinks. They will, however, be freer to talk about it when they are drunk.

3. Do you ever see porn? When last did you see porn? 

You are asking this because the kind of porn a person sees can give you some insight into their sexual history.

4. What are your favorite sex songs?

Yes, they sure want to talk about that sex playlist they made! They do!

5. When does sex become bad sex?

There are few things women want to talk about when they’re drunk more than bad sex. Just sit back, and listen.

If she refuses to tell, she has to stick to the rules of the game and gulp down one more glass. 

6. Where is the most embarrassing place you have gotten down with someone?

Fun! Fun! All shades of fun! Be sure to spend some minutes laughing over this question. I have had some of the funniest responses in my life from asking this question.

7. How old were you when you had your first sex? 

It might be a little sensitive question, though, so ask when you are sure she is starting to get drunk.

8. What will you describe your last sex as?


9. Do you think good sex is teamwork? 

The answer to this drinking game question gives you a peek into her sex life. Is she the boring kind? Is she the kind who makes things deeply intense?

10. What if I walked into your room without clothes? What will you do?

The response to this tells you how attracted she is to you. If you are trying to bed her, then you sure must ask this. 

11. Do you think penis size matters? 

She might put thoughts in her head that you have a small penis. But it doesn’t matter.

12. Are you a good kisser?

It is not uncommon for the answer to this question to be: “Do you want to find out?” Of course, you do.

13. When was the last time you masturbated? 

A drinking game question that gives you a clue about her sexual history.

14. Do you easily get satisfied? 

Chances are, she is going to ask you to come and find out. But that depends on a lot of things. You should never cajole a woman into having sex with you when she is drunk.

15. Do you like to receive head? 

A subtle hint that you give good head and may want her to come to see for herself. Trust me; she is going to pick on this hint. She is a woman, after all.

16. Have you ever been cheated on? 

You should ask this truth or drink a question when the mood is right. You don’t want to be a killjoy. 

17. Have you ever had make-up sex?

Haven’t we all? Well, ask her!

18. What was the closest you have come to having a threesome? 

One of the best sexual questions that give you clues into her fantasies. If she has never had a threesome, she will agree to never have one. If she seeks to have one, however, she will talk about this desire.

19. What is the longest you have stayed without sex? 

Do you hear crickets? Can you feel the liquor slapping?

20. What is the longest sex you have had?

This is a sexual question that gives you some info about whether or not she loves sex. If she does, and you haven’t had sex with her yet, chances are, it is going to happen soon.

21. Have you ever had sex more than twice a day? 

Side eye!

22. What if I touched your inner thighs and kissed you? 

Now it is getting more intense. You are asking these drinking game questions in a bid to gauge her desire for you.

23. Do you think women enjoy sex more than men?

I don’t know her. But I can tell her answer is going to be no. Women seldom admit that there is a chance they do enjoy sex more than men. It is likely they do, seeing that they are able to have multiple orgasms, whereas men don’t.

24. When was the last time someone gave you head? 

Also, subtly tell her that you are great at giving head. She is going to pick on this for sure. 

25. Have you ever had a Yoni massage? 

She has likely never heard of a Yoni massage before. Guess what that means? She is going to ask that you tell her more about it. There is your chance to woo her into wanting to try it with you. 

If it ever happens, don’t flop. Read this article to learn how to give a Yoni massage

26. What time of the day or night do you think sex is best?

Lean in closer as she rummages for the answer to this sexual question.

27. Have you ever had sex with a best friend? 

Crickets. A lot of crickets.

28. Do you take nudes? Would you be fine with showing me some?

If you ask this way, at this time that she is drunk, I can bet she is going to be fine with showing you her nudes. She is going to be!  

29. Does your ovulation make you horny?

Both you and her know the answer to this question. Top it up by asking: “Are you ovulating right now?”

30. What kind of people are you attracted to?

You know just where you stand after she answers this.


If you ask the right questions, you get the right responses.

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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