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10 Secrets to Getting a Blow Job

by | Sensual Intimacy

Sep 13, 2023

Not every guy gets a blow job. But there are those who almost always get blowjobs. What makes the second category different? I will tell you what: rizz and skill. I will transform you into a guy with rizz before you get to the end of this article. I will tell you secrets to get a blow job every time you have sex.

1. Don’t Ask

Even though it may seem counter-intuitive, asking for a blow job is one way to not get one. 

Ten out of twenty girls we asked about blow jobs said men who asked for it felt very weird. 

Ekaterina said: “I would want to do it when I want to do it. Him having to ask just comes off as needy, and to be honest, it is a bit weird for me.” 

This is true. If you are going to get a blow job, you have got to leverage on the secret that is not asking. If you are even going to ask, do not do so verbally. 

2. Talk About How You Have Never Received a Blow Job Before

Women often make it seem like it is only men who have the messiah complex. But trust me, women have it too. Women want to be heroes, and when you give them the chance to be a hero, they take it just fine.

You will find this behavior to be especially common among cougars. 

Check out my recent article about how to tell if a woman is a cougar. 

When next, you get into a room with a woman whom you want a blow job from, then talk about how you have not gotten a blow job before. 

If she is the kind of woman who is chill, she will ask if you would like to get one from her.

Read: How to Give Rhythm to Your Strokes

3. Ask, But Don’t Focus on You

There are tricks and secrets to getting stuff from women, and many times, you will get what you want. 

When in need of something in bed, you should not ask when the focus is on you. 

You shouldn’t say: Can you please give me a blow job. 

This puts her in a position of power. And most times, when you put a woman in a position of power, she is going to use it. 

You do not give a woman power and expect her not to use it. 

The proper way of getting a blow job from a woman is putting the focus on her so that now, she has to prove that she can stand being the centre of attention. 

Say: “Do you know what blow jobs feel like? I trust you enjoy.” 

4. Shame Her into Wanting to Give You One

Yes, you can use the element of shame to get just about anything you want in bed, and that includes even blow jobs. 

How do I know this? Well, I do know this because I have done it before, and it has worked every single time. 

Women will often want to prove that they are not sexually amateurs. They will want to show you that they know just what to do.

Shame her by inferring that she does not know how to give a blow job, and she will try to prove you wrong by giving you one.

Read: 10 Ways to Jerk Off Like a Pro

5. The Truth or Dare Game to the Rescue

Playing truth or dare is another way to get a blow job. This one is not so much of a secret. At least the knowledge of it. It is the application of this knowledge that is a secret. 

Typically, you should play the truth and dare game when you both are a bit tipsy. This is usually when she is going to agree to do stuff you both usually do not do. 

Now dare her to give you a blow job, introducing the element of shame and challenge. 

Something like: “I dare you to give me a blow job. I am sure you do not even know how to.” 

6. Shave

Every guy who wants to get a blow job must know that it does not help to be bushy down there. The truth is, even though a woman had had it in mind to give you a blow job, if she sees that you are not shaved, she may back away. 

Neat penis areas and balls invite women in. It does so in two ways: first, it shows her that you are very clean and unlikely to have a small. And second, it kind of makes your penis look bigger and more intriguing.

Have you noticed that your penis does look bigger when you shave it? It is not an illusion. The hair over there may have made you look much smaller by taking some of your length. 

Read: How to Better Your Pull-Out Game

7. Have Her Hold Your Penis

With this, you do not have to say any words. 

Just have her hold your penis, and her mind is going to do the rest. A woman’s mind is such a beautiful place. Many times, the woman herself is even oblivious to this beauty. 

When she has your penis in her hand, an image immediately forms. She thinks of placing it elsewhere. This happens after she has fondled it. The two favored places she thinks to put it into are her mouth or her vagina. 

It is unlikely that she is going to put it in her vagina anyway.

8. Give Her Head

Even in bed, exchanges are made. If you give her head, chances are, she is going to feel obligated to give you a blow job as well.

This is one secret that guys who get a lot of blowjobs know perfectly. They know to give a woman head, sure that she will feel obligated to return the favor. Call it a mind game because that’s just what it is, and it works almost all the time. 

Summary

If you have been getting no blow jobs, then you are doing something wrong and have to right it.

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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