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7 Reasons Why Women Prefer Men with Bigger Penises

by | Sensual Intimacy

Jun 13, 2023

Being a blog interested in finding answers to difficult questions surrounding sex and relationships, we took to mind that a large number of women agreed they prefer men with bigger penises and sought to find out just why it is so. Our small survey comprised 20 women between the ages of 23 and 40. Important questions were answered, and we came to conclude that these are 10 of the commonest reasons why women prefer men with bigger penises: 

1. Porn

No matter how we try to look at it, the truth is: porn has such a big part to play in a person’s sexuality. 

Porn strokes our fantasies and makes us want to try out the things we see in these adult films. 

And most of what we see in porn is ‘surreal.’ I mean, the men are way bigger than the average penis size, and the women have bodies that look like sculptures that took years to make. 

Many women in our survey agreed that they saw a lot of porn. They also agreed that there is a probability that these adult videos greatly influenced their sexual preferences. 

This is not to say that there aren’t women who like big penises who aren’t influenced by porn. There are quite a number out there. 

2. First Sex Partner Had a Big Penis

We are all the same when it comes to sex. Our first sexual experience, if pleasurable, is going to be the one we hold on to.

If your first sexual partner was a curvy woman, for example, there is such a big chance that you will be drawn to women who have big butts subsequently. 

Of the 20 women we interviewed who agreed they loved men with bigger penises, 15 of them said to have had their first loving sexual encounter with a man who had a big dick. 

This explains a lot about why women often go for the same kind of guys, even emotionally. 

Read: Does Penis Size Matter to Women?

3. Grith May Mean More Pleasure

Sex is supposed to be pleasurable. So, every one of us will often go for the most pleasurable experience. 

Many women agree that having sex with a man who has a bigger penis, especially one which is not only long but has the desired grith, feels a lot better. 

This may be because the grith of the dick stretches the skin of her vagina properly, at least enough to activate pleasure points.

Many women agree that grith is preferred to length. 

4. Long Means Better Exploring

Of the 20 women who took part in our survey, some agreed that long penises did more than girthy ones—they also agreed that length and grith were really a good combo. 

It was very interesting that all of these women who agreed that long penises felt great were chubby women with big butts. 

This strikes a possibility that, just maybe, these women like long penises because long penises could reach deep into their vaginas. 

Alice told us: “I think long does it better because, with long, one does not have to align themselves in a certain way. The penis just goes in, whatever style you are trying out.” 

Halima said something strikingly similar. She said: “When he has a long penis, I don’t have to worry whether or not the penis is going to slip out when we try positions like the cowgirl. The penis can be big, but if it is not long enough for me, being a big woman, the penis is going to slip out, and that fucks things up.” 

Read: How to Gently Pop Her Cherry

5. Desires Born Out of Hearing Friends Speak

Whilst some women do not watch porn, a lot listen to friends talk about sex. It will surprise you to know that sex is one of the most talked about things when women who are sexually open sit to talk to each other. 

They talk about it in such detail. Even going on to talk about what styles the guy tried and how he performed generally. They also talk about penis size. 

A woman who sits with friends and listens to them talk about the kind of penises that make the difference will be drawn to seeking out those sorts of experiences. She is going to develop an intense liking for big dicks because kinks have to be met. 

6. Big Penises May Feel Better to Suck

Fifteen of the women we interviewed agreed that they loved to perform oral sex on their partners.

They agreed that it made them feel very good when the oral sex was somewhat challenging. 

That is to say; they did not like it when it felt too easy. By easy, they meant void of risky moves like deep-throating and spreading the lips too far apart. 

These risky moves seem to have a part to play in arousal. 

I think basic biology is able to explain this. When we are in the face of risk, the body enters a mode called flight or fight. In this mode, the body produces a lot of adrenaline. Adrenaline makes blood rush into blood vessels. 

That rush of blood can make one feel more aroused. It can also make one reach an orgasm faster. 

Vinyl S. told us: “I like it when there is a bit of risk. I mean, I want to deep-throat him. I really love to tell myself that I can do this. Take a long breath, and then dive right in.” 

You may think women are incredibly gentle in bed and want all the nice things done to them. But the truth is, women are not as gentle as you think. They also love those adrenaline rush moments. 

They also seek to be deeply aroused. This is why I advise guys not to be too gentle with their partners in bed. There is a time to make love, and there is a time to go all out and be the wildest you can be. Be that wild guy!

Read: 10 Facts About Penis Size You Didn’t Know

7. Women don’t even know why!

Some women just like big penises for no reason!

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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