Deepthroats are a very important part of a good fellatio. Many men agree to only consider a blowjob good if the woman is able to deepthroat them good enough. It comes as a surprise to these men, however, that women do love BJ—that is isn’t the painful and unpleasant thing some make it seem. In this article, we explore why women enjoy giving blowjobs.
1. It arouses and pleasures the man
Women totally love it when their man is pleasured. Unlike men, at least a lot of men, who may just want to finish off and call it a day, women are a little more careful with tending to the sexual needs of their partners.
Janie, a bisexual woman in College, told us that she’s had sex with both men and women and can tell that one of the key differences between both is the keenness with which women explore sex with their partners.
“A woman makes your pleasure her own,” She says. “She makes you want to have sex with her. She brings your pleasure into herself, and that is truly amazing.”
Women like BJ because it brings pleasure to the man.
They want to see him “suffer” from the sting of pleasure. They want to hear him call out their names and moan.
Marie says: “I like it when a man moans. So I do anything to make him moan. I find that a good fellatio is all that it takes sometimes. So I do it. And I do it so well he begins to call my name. Yes, say my name, Papi.”
When next your woman gives you a deepthroat, know that she is trying to make you feel good. Make her feel good, too, by moaning. Or complimenting her.
2. It is thrilling
You will agree that some of the most thrilling things are things that come with a big risk of going bad. Women know that a deep throat is one second away from going bad and messy. This is what makes it interesting for them, ironically.
Laura says: “I like to give blowjobs. I have given so many, and so I know that one mistake when you give a deepthroat can make things weird. This brings you to an edge. And on that edge, you can find your own pleasure.”
Bellis says the same thing. “One time, I almost puked on my partner. It was so weird. But for some reason, I loved it. That effort I had to put into suppressing puking was so amazing. I find that when we try to avoid risks in sex or in bed, orgasms become easier.”
The stories can go on and on. But the truth is that deepthroats are risky. They can have puke all over the place. But that is exactly what makes them feel so good.
You know you are doing a deepthroat right if there is a risk that things may get weird.
3. It puts them in a submissive role
Women like to be in a submissive role in bed. At least a lot of them. More than half the women I have been with have agreed that they love to be in a submissive role.
This is why we often hear women talk about their love for BDSM.
Have you ever heard a woman talk about the book, “Fifty Shades of Grey”?
The first time I heard someone speak about the book, I was surprised by all that excitement. But what surprised me even more was the passion with which she talked about the desire to be treated that way.
Her words were, “I often want to be fucked so hard.”
Blowjobs puts her in a position of submission. You can make things even more exciting by holding onto her neck.
4. It makes them feel wild
Women like to feel like they are wild. Almost every woman I have met wants to feel like a baddie. She wants to be the wildest woman a man has met, doing nasty things for him. This is especially true if she is super attached to him.
It is the attraction that makes women do a lot of wild things.
A woman will often perform a deepthroat as a means to feel like she is very nasty.
This is especially true in women who are new to sex and all other sexual escapades. They often want to prove to themselves that they can do the wildest things in bed.
Malia tells us, “When you find a woman who is all out to do the weirdest and the wildest things in bed, then you should know she is doing it as a means to explore. Women like to explore, too. I know this is hard for guys to grasp, but women do love to explore.”
Deepthroats may mean she is trying to explore and get bad.
Jane says: “I did the wildest and weirdest stuff when I was new to having sex. To be honest, it helped.”
5. It turns them on
One time, I was with a woman who liked to say: “I do it for me, too. It makes me feel good.”
She meant it. Many women like to deepthroat because it makes them feel good too.
Giving a blow job can be mentally and emotionally stimulating. This can make her feel intense pleasure, especially if sheis touching herself at the same time.
Halima says, “Giving a blowjob turns me on too. I like them. I love to give them.”
