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10 Reasons Why Men Like Blow Jobs

by | Sensual Intimacy

Jun 2, 2023

If you have ever wondered why blow jobs mean so much to men, you are not alone. Most of the questions around blow jobs fall within the “Why does it matter so much?” line. I will tell you just why it matters throughout this article. Here are 10 commonest reasons why men love blow jobs.

1. A Blowjob Offers Room for Exploring

At their core, men are very curious people. This means there is a likelihood that they will love anything that piques their curiosity. A blow job is one. 

Most of the men who insist on having a blow job the first time they have sex are just intrigued by it. They have probably read about it in erotic books for some time or have seen it in adult movies. 

Even men who have received countless blow jobs seem to still be intrigued by it. 

2. The View from Up There is Amazing

This is why we ask women to try as much as they can to look in the eyes of their partners when they give blow jobs. 

I am speaking for at least 90 percent of men right now when I say that the view from up there when they receive a blow job is one of the most beautiful sights ever. 

Make it even more intense by spreading your lips into a smile. 

Read: 10 Reasons Why Men Love Breasts

3. Their Balls aren’t Neglected this Time

With penetrative sex, a man’s balls are quite neglected. But the balls may have some little contribution to arousal. 

Benji told us: “I don’t quite know how it works, but my balls feel everything. Touching my balls makes me go up to that zone.” 

When men receive blow jobs, they get their balls licked, and this makes them near orgasm even faster. 

Did you know that pulling gently on a man’s ballsac can make him last longer? Of course, it can. You just have to be very gentle. 

4. Blow Jobs are Just Freaky

Blow jobs are simply just freaky, and men seem to be very drawn to “the freaky.” If it is able to make him feel like he is having the nastiest sex ever, then he is going to love it. 

This is the very reason why he loves it when you give him a blow job. 

Jamal W. said: “When a woman gives me a good blow job, I know she is a freak. And having sex with a freak is one of the best things ever.” 

Check out our article to learn how to give the freakiest blow job ever. 

Read: What Men Think About Women With Small Boobs

5. Blow Jobs are Moist and Warm

The best-ever sensations in bed come when the man’s penis is exposed to warm moistness. 

This is why men will insist a woman deepthroats them most of the time. That warmth does something to him: it makes him reach for more. And guess what? He can only find that ‘more’ he wishes for in your vagina. 

So a good blow job will almost without exception translate to good sex.

Jilian L. says: “My husband likes it with a lot of spit. I never knew why until he explained to me that warm moistness is the best possible thing to happen to his penis.” 

6. Blow Jobs Make Men Feel in Control

In bed, men like to be in control. It turns them on. It makes them strive to have the best sex ever. Blow jobs are one of the many ways men assume control in bed. 

During a blow job, especially a very freaky one that has him deepthroating his woman, it is he who guides the sex. 

With calculated carefulness, he guides his penis into her mouth, and she counts on him, knowing he is making love to her and will not hurt. 

Read: Men Describe What a Beautiful Vagina Looks Like

7. Blow Jobs are Team Work

One cannot have a good blow job when both partners are not working together. Men know this. And this is why they ask for a blow job most of the time. 

They just need their women to participate in the sex. And they seek to guide this participation. 

Jason C. told us: “I love blow jobs because, at that moment, I know she is in this with me. The sensations are also maddening.” 

I must add that if you have problems giving blow jobs, it may be because you have not yet learned to let go and give that blow job like the teamwork it is supposed to be. 

8. Blow Jobs Explore a Range of Other Sensations

The sensations from a vagina are very limited. This is not to say that a vagina does not feel good to be in. Of course, the vagina is one of the loveliest, coziest places to be in. It is warm and grips a man’s penis such that a wave of pleasure spirals into him. 

But the sensations from a vagina seem to only be limited to friction and grip. 

A blow job offers more. With a blow job, the man is able to feel the ‘licking’ sensation. This is what happens when a woman likes the cap of a man’s penis. 

If you are observant, you must have noticed that your man sort of jerks when you lick the cap of his penis. That is raw pleasure pulsating into him. Who wouldn’t love that?

9. Blow Jobs Can Make a Man Last Longer

A man may last longer in bed when he receives a blow job. We asked sixteen men if they believed this to be true, and all sixteen of them agreed it was.

They had observed their bodies for quite some time and were now convinced that on days when they received blow jobs, they seemed to last longer than on days when they did not. 

It is funny how our bodies work, isn’t it? 

Read: How to Swallow Cum I Everything About Swallowing Semen

10. Men Love BJ for the Same Reason Women Love Head

Yes! Men and women are not so different when it comes to sexuality. 

So, you can think up some reasons why you love head. Men love blow jobs for the same reasons. 

Summary

Blow jobs expose one to a wide range of feelings. Who wouldn’t love that?

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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