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8 Questions to Ask Your Crush

by | Love

May 27, 2024

It is sometimes difficult to keep conversations going with your crush because you run out of things to say or barely even know what to say in the first place. In this article, we step in with a helping hand. These are ten questions to ask your crush to keep the conversation going.

1. What is your favorite social media? Why?

This works because it makes her think. 

In her head, she goes: “Wait, you know I haven’t thought about that before? Let me think.”

Guess what? She is going to be engaged that way for a long time. 

How will she respond: Of course, she’ll respond by showing you the social media she likes the most. It becomes your duty to throw the conversation around. 

Ask her why she thinks that one is perfect. And why it is preferable to TikTok. 

Everyone likes TikTok these days. She is going to be into the conversation. 

2. When Last Did you see a butterfly? What did it look like?

This is such a beautiful question to ask your crush. On the surface, it looks like one of those silly questions. 

But it isn’t. At least it will not be to her as she begins to imagine why you’ve asked her that. 

Will it work to push the conversation forward: It will work to push the conversation forward because it will make her think about butterflies. 

If she has not seen them in a while, she will wonder why. 

But one thing is for sure: she will want to know why you asked her that question. 

When she asks to find out why, just tell her something sweet and cheesy. 

Something like: “I don’t know. I thought I’d want to know when you took a look inside my tummy.”

That in itself is a playful way of showing her that she makes you feel butterflies in your tummy. 

If she is smart enough, she will figure it out and laugh about it with you. 

Read: Helpful Tips for Building the Courage to Talk to Your Crush

3. What was your favorite childhood game?

Everyone likes to talk about the sweetest moments of their childhood as long as it does not traumatize them. 

Before you ask your crush this question, be sure that;

They did not experience any sort of trauma during their childhood. 

If they did, maybe it’s time to change the question. 

If they didn’t, go on. 

How will she respond: You will, of course, notice that a bright smile comes to line her face. 

Suddenly, she feels eager to talk about it. 

Childhood games are fun. And you know what’s even more fun? The thought of them. 

Thinking about childhood games can make one feel very at ease. 

What to do: When she tells about that game she loves or has loved since she was a child, you reciprocate. Tell her about a game you, too, liked when you were a child. 

That should be the basis of the new conversation you enter into. 

Remember that a good conversation is just an overlapping of amazing ideas and experiences that string into something pleasurable. 

4. Do you remember the first time we met?

At a distance, this is going to feel very basic. And it is if you’re talking to someone who barely knows you. But you’re talking to your crush here, someone who may come to like you as well. 

Why will it work: This question will work to make your crush invested in the conversation because it will remind her of who you used to be before this closeness. 

It is going to make her want to feel even more close to you. 

How will she respond: She will respond by being jovial and friendly and may even tease you. You can know how much she likes you by her answer. If her answer is very detailed, say she remembers everything about that day, what you wore and how you looked, then there is such a big chance that she likes you

You should come to see conversations with your crush as pointers. They can tell you what your crush feels about you. 

How should you respond: To keep the conversation going, remind her of what she wore too. Tease her about what you noticed on her the first time you both saw each other. 

Read: 10 Ways to Make Your Crush Notice You

5. What do you think is the most annoying thing about you?

One of the ways to push a conversation with your crush forward is to ask her what she thinks about herself. 

People like to talk about themselves. It makes them happy, especially if the listener is very interested in what they’re saying. This is because when one can tell someone is listening to their self-talk, that someone must really be interested in them. 

What will be her response: Her response is likely going to be laughter. Some women may go; “What, is this a trick question?”

My bet is that she laugh, and then go on to either answer the question or throw it back at you. 

“No, you tell me what you think is the most annoying thing about me.”

You shouldn’t. It is a test. 

6. What do you think is the most annoying thing about me?

Asking her this is going to turn her attention to you, and this is a good thing. Sometimes, you have to ask your crush questions that turn their attention to you. 

She is, of course, going to tell you. 

You may not like the answer, so brace yourself. 

Read: How to Approach Your Gym Crush and Get Them to Like You

7. Do you like (a book, an art piece, music)?

Ask her questions about your shared interests and likes. 

If she likes that subject as much as you, be sure that her answer is going to be very detailed, giving more life to the conversation. 

8. Can we go out sometime?

Sometimes, the best question to ask your crush is one which tells her you like her. Ask her on a date. 

I know she won’t say no. 


Questions push conversations forward and give us insight into what that person thinks about you. 

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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