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15 Places to Meet Women Who are Wife Material

by | Meeting People, Moving On

Sep 19, 2021

Are you searching for ‘the one’? Know this: where and how you meet your partner can influence how your relationship with them turns out. Agreed, you can meet your significant other anywhere. But, what are the possible best places to meet a woman who is wife material?

From the experiences and love stories of individuals who were kind enough to share how they met their significant other, we have tailored this list of fifteen places you are likely to meet a woman who turns out to be a wife material that matches for personality and brings you peace.

These places include:

1. Religious Gatherings

You’d agree that almost everyone you know met their partner in a place of worship. Religious gatherings consist, basically, of people bound by similar beliefs and values. 

Most religions have principles that align with good societal values: love, commitment, hopefulness, and faith. They teach followers to adhere to these beliefs. 

What better than to marry someone who shares the same beliefs as you? Nothing. Remember, ‘wife material’ is subjective; a wife material is a woman who shares your core values. So, yes, a religious gathering is the perfect place to meet one.

2. College/University

Almost everyone who goes to college is purpose-driven. College is hard—we all know that—and for one to go to college, one must have developed the mental fortitude it takes to get a degree. 

So, yes, a college or a university is one of those places you’re most likely to meet a woman who is wife material. 

Her drive is not going to be in doubt, and neither will her commitment to you. A woman who is committed to her dreams and goals will, for a fact, be committed to her husband and her kids. 

She will raise an amazing family and will pass down certain inheritable characters to your children.

Related: 15 Signs She Is Wife Material

3. Classical Music Concerts

Many people think classical music to be boring. But it really isn’t if you have a flair for it. Are you a lover of music? Then a classical music concert is one of those places to meet your soul mate. 

Music is one of those things that demand your passion, and you are either passionate about it or not. 

A woman who loves music is almost always passionate about it, and she most likely even plays a musical instrument. Passion is necessary when choosing a partner.

A person who burns with passion also burns with a commitment to what they’re passionate about. 

A woman who shares your passions and commitments? Wife material definitely. Wife material!

4. Your Office

Women who work with you are not only career-driven, classy, organized, or able to keep calm under pressure and responsible. Being coworkers, they also share your expertise and sometimes interest. 

They will also be committed to doing tasks and achieving goals. 

Plus, you both will assist each other if you eventually get married and spend time together even though both of you’re away from home. This is especially true if you work at a place where staff has to travel often.

5. Friend’s Recommendation

People almost never vouch for just anyone; they vouch for people they can trust, who have attributes that are admirable and lovely.

Are you seeking to get married soon? Have a friend recommend a friend to you. This is surer and safer. Your friends know the best of people and how they are. 

Have them recommend you a person whose attribute is worth emulating. Trust me; they know who. They do.

Read: 15 Qualities Men are Looking For in a Woman

6. Local Community/Neighborhood

Neighbors sometimes share a lot of values, that is which some neighborhoods are known for a particular thing.

You have heard of a particular neighborhood filled with people who love trouble, who are calm and caring, etc.

Your significant other could just be right where you live. Unless you’re always locked up in the confines of your room, then your chances of meeting the one for you are slim. 

Go out. Acknowledge others around your neighborhood, and there you might find her.

7. Local Library

Are you a book lover? Do you enjoy doing your research and study at the library? There are just women who do so, too. You will almost always find them in your local library, feeding their eyes on a novel. 

Engage them after their library session, offer a cup of coffee, and recommend a good book. You just might be on your way to building something lasting.

8. A Bar

Ah! Yes! The bar. Bars are fun. And one can write a thousand and one names of people who met their partners at bars. A lot of women go to bars to chill after a busy week; you would find them seated at a table, alone, glass in hand, official clothes on. 

Wife material? Most of the time, yes. 

A woman who has learned to chill on her own, finding joy in her own company, is most of the time just the woman you want. She is confident and does not seek validation from anyone. Good stuff. Good. 

Approach her and strike a conversation. See for yourself if you want her to be yours. 

9. Social Media Groups

With millions of people on social media, with high profiles and various personalities, finding a woman that meets your standard is easy.  

Facebook Dating, Instagram, Twitter are popular social media apps that can lead you to your significant other. 

Just be sure to seek out women who share your goals. Have talks and meet up in real life, so you can spot character flaws that are absent on social media. 

Social media can be a bit deceptive, you should know. Many people on social media live fake lives, projecting to be what they aren’t. 

You don’t want to spend the rest of your life with such people. Only real ones, whose social media characteristics match their real-life characteristics.

10. Dating sites

Dating sites like Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid and more allow you to select from the list of women that occasionally pop up on the space. Each profile already has the qualities the individual possesses as well as other basic information about them.  

With this bio-data, you can filter out the suitable partner for you and say I Do.

Be careful not to be scammed. Dating sites are swarming with scams and people who post abusive content. Be careful not to be harmed. 

Read: 12 Ways To Be The Best Girlfriend He’s Ever Had

11. On Transit

Have you ever had to board a bus for a journey that would last for a long duration of time? Or a boat? Or the aeroplane? I’m guessing yes. If you are seeking out a wife material, you can find one here.

Look out for the one who catches your interest, and approach her for a talk. Remember, you are supposed to go after purpose-driven women who have both physical and personality attributes you appreciate.

Know, however, that some women may not be open to a conversation with strangers, and some would only loosen up if you offer some form of help—like, help them offload their bags. Then, you can seize the moment and get it going on for you.

12. The shopping mall/Local store/Grocery Store

The female attendants at these places are nice, smile a lot, patient, and attentive are most likely to make very good spouses. Guess what that means? It means that they have people skills. 

These women, who happen to interact with different personalities every day, are so skilled in relating with people that they maintain their cool even when upset. 

In our present-day and age, people skills like this one is a necessity in a woman who you want to wife.

Good people skills are an indicator that a person is patient and loving.

13. Occasions/Events

Yes, you can meet a woman who is wife material at an occasion. Weddings, a house-warming party of a friend or relative, baby showers, gatherings, or a get-together party would be incomplete without women. 

A lot of times, women who attend the occasions are devoted to friendships. They consider attending a friend’s occasion as their little way of being there for that friend—some sort of loyalty.

This is a good trait, and it should interest you to be married to such a person.

14. Art Museum/Gallery/Music band

Art lovers possess a mind-blogging kind of intelligence. Do you belong to a band, a book club, a painting society? You just might be looking too far for that woman. 

Women with artistic abilities are highly attractive. And if you are an art lover, you sure know where to go searching.

15. Clubs

A lot of people might scoff at this option. But remember, ‘wife material’ is subjective. A woman can be wife material for one person, but the complete opposite for another person.

Clubs are a big deal. The rich and average class, alike, all come here to have fun. And at the same ready to mingle and walk down the aisle. 

If you are an extrovert, you shouldn’t pass on the opportunity to visit a club someday. She just might be waiting for you there.

Photo by Ben White on Unsplash

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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