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Men Describe What a Beautiful Vagina Looks Like

by | Sensual Intimacy

May 7, 2023

Heads up, some of these opinions about how a beautiful vagina looks are going to be really funny. Others are so outrageous they may even make your eyes roll. But they’re all real-life views of men when it comes to beautiful vaginas.

We asked men what they think a beautiful vagina looks like, and here’s what they say.

1. Beautiful Vaginas Look Like Red; Beautiful Roses in The Sun

— Jake

Jake’s imagery is very on point in many ways. A vagina does look like a rose. In fact, in many erotic magazines, the vagina is often portrayed as a rose.

This is where the term “deflowered” comes from. Many cultures think beautiful vaginas should look like roses.

So when a woman has sex for the first time, it is believed that she has “deflowered.”

I have wondered what the petals of this flower look like. One of our editors thinks it is the vulva.

Read: What Does a Vagina Feel Like?

2. A Beautiful Vagina Looks So Much Like a Pair of Small Lips

— Josh

Josh, like Jake, also spins off very beautiful imagery. Of course, the vagina looks like a pair of lips.

That is why the vulva is called the “Labia.”

The labia majora, as the name suggests, is the most prominent. In comparison, the labia minora is the less prominent.

Three men we questioned agree with Jake that a vagina is most beautiful when its lips are small.

They say the smallness of the lips suggests that it will feel very tight.

However, this is very far from the truth. It is impossible for one to tell if a vagina will feel tight or not by just looking at it.

There are many tight-looking vaginas that may not even feel tight. What makes a vagina tight goes beyond the appearance.

And many times, even the sexual behavior of a person may not have an influence on their vaginal tightness.

Just as there are men who have large penises, there are women who have tight vaginas.

3. Beautiful Vaginas Look Like Fat Lips

— Hamli

By just reading Hamli’s opinion, I could already tell his taste in women. It is obvious he likes women who are thick. That, or he feels the size of a woman’s vulva has a role to play in sexual pleasure.

And it does, even though this role may be very small.

I have seen a couple of thick-lipped vaginas myself. And to be fair, they do look very good.

Oral sex may even feel better to both the giver and the receiver, seeing that there is a lot of surface area.

Read: 10 Ways to Be The Sexy Wife of Your Husband’s Dream

4. I think a Beautiful Vagina is a Thin Slit

— Bamidele

This opinion shows that the beauty of a vagina boils down to what a guy prefers.

Bamidele and at least four other men think a beautiful vagina should not have such prominent lips.

It should look like a slit.

I believe this also has something to do with how the vagina must feel.

As I have discussed earlier, there is a misconception that women who have smaller vulvas may have tighter vaginas.

Again, this is not true. I do not think the size of the vulva has a role to play in determining the size of a woman’s vaginal canal.

You may not know this, but (keep reading if you want your views of vulvas to change forever) the vulva is a scrotum that has reduced so much in size and flared out.

At conception and weeks into birth, we all develop as women. It is when the XY gene begins to function that our sexual organs start to differentiate.

The scrotum reduces to become the vulva. And the penis becomes the clitoris.

Yes, the clitoris can be thought of as an ultra-micro penis. In fact, it has some properties of a penis. It is, of course, erectile. During sexual intercourse, the clitoris is able to erect!

5. I think any Vagina Looks Good as Long as There is FUPA

— Dawid

FUPA is an acronym for fat upper pussy area. In the course of my work, I have seen that women who have a FUPA feel very insecure about it.

Well, Dawid is telling you that you look very beautiful with your FUPA.

I was especially interested in Dawid’s response and so proved further why he loved women with FUPA.

“It is absolutely sexy.” He said. “I think it is very sexy. I like to play with it when I cuddle my woman. Beautiful, really.”

Read: What is Brazilian Wax? 10 Must-Knows About Getting a Brazilian Wax

6. A vagina can be Beautiful Whichever way it Looks, But I think the Most Beautiful Vaginas are those with easy-to-find-clits.

— Sam

Sam is concerned about the position of the clit. I guess it’s because he knows that the clit is a g-spot that he can stroke whenever he seeks to get in his woman’s head.

If, like Sam, you have some issues finding the clit. I am going to give you some cheat codes.

Not to brag, but I can find the clit of every single woman, no matter how her vagina looks. It’s fairly easy.

The clit is usually at the apex of her vulva.

Remember that we have established a vulva looks like a pair of lips. To find the apex, follow the lips until where they meet upward.

Now, look for any knob-like projection—it could be really small in some women—around her pee-hole.

There, you have found it. That is her clit!

7. A Beautiful Vagina Looks Pinkish

— Kwame

Means was the only one to talk about the color of the vagina.

I believe he loves pinkish vaginas because the color of a vagina may have something to do with arousal.

Usually, the vagina receives a rich blood flow when a woman is aroused. This causes it to look pinkish.

However, not all vaginas look pink. And women can sure reach peak arousal without a change in the color of their vaginas.


Beautiful means different things to different men. Your vagina looks beautiful just the way it is. You can bet on that.

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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