Too many men spend a lot of time wondering if they really are good in bed. I asked ten men if they had ever wondered what women had to say about their performance. All ten of them agreed that they had wondered this at some point. Women also agree that they often get questions regarding performance from men. In this article, I will be showing you how to tell if you are actually good in bed—whether or not women tell you so.
1. Your one-night stands keep coming back
If you are good in bed, one thing is for sure: you will have too few actual one-night stands. Because everyone, or almost everyone whom you have had sex with a first time, will come back for a second round.
Women like a good dick. And since the average woman is really not fine with jumping from one sexual partner to the next, she would settle for any partner who is able to really satisfy her and will make him her go-to man whenever she wants to have good sex.
Victoria tells us: “If I have sex with a man and he is so great on the first day, there is such a big chance that I will come back to him. We women do these things quite a lot. I know it will come as a surprise to men, but we do it. We do it.”
If she keeps coming back, then she is telling you that you are great in bed.
2. She doesn’t want you to cum yet
Even when it’s been more than fifteen minutes, she wants you to keep going without stopping.
When a woman does not like sex with a man, you would often hear stuff like: “Don’t you want to cum?”
This is her way of saying: “You know I want the sex to end already.”
A lot of women do this, and quite frankly, when guys don’t get the cue, I laugh because guys don’t have to be so oblivious to how women work.
If a woman enjoys, and I mean really enjoys, sex with you, she would not want you to ejaculate just yet because she doesn’t want the sex to end. She wants to keep going. And even when you tire out, she is going to want to ride you.
Simply put, she is going to want to make sure your dick is inside her.
Andrea says: “There is no such thing as long sex with a woman who enjoys having sex with a man. When a man is good in bed and a woman is having a moment with him, there is no such thing as long sex. There is just sex, really.”
Ekaterina also says something just as pretty: “Sex is such a great place to be when the man is great at bed. You reallynever want it to stop.”
So, if you ever wonder if sex is going too long or if she is not getting sore, then you should realize that she just wants you to keep going because sex with you is a beautiful thing that should not end just yet. That is some big praise.
3. She stays wet for a long time
A woman who is enjoying sex with a man is going to enjoy his body and let him enjoy sex with her. Women have many ways of letting one know he is doing great in bed. Sometimes, she doesn’t even need to talk because her body does the talking for her.
If she stays wet very long and does not get dry even when you feel like she should, then you are great in bed. She likes what you are doing. Her body is cooperating with you because your touches are gentle, and having sex with you is as beautiful as she wants it to be.
Unwana says: “I never last long dry when a man is not doing so great. When I don’t like a man and the kind of sex he is giving me, I do not stay wet for long.”
She is quite right!
When a woman’s body cooperates with you and loves what you do, she is going to be wet for a long time!
4. She orgasms
When a woman is orgasming, she loves what you are doing. Women never cum for men they don’t like. I say this a lot. Cummimg for men is not the same as it is for women. For men, cummimg can be merely physical. When a woman cums, there is the emotional and mental part. That is to say, she has to really enjoy it.
You’re great in bed if you make your woman orgasm a couple of times every now and then.
Geyu says: “When one makes me cum, I can tell that he is great in bed. Not every man knows how to make a woman cum. When one does, you can tell that one is very sensitive to the workings of a woman’s body. Women are easy to please, but only when you pay attention.”
This is true. It is!
5. You have multiple sex when she is around
Once, a man complained to me that his wife never really has sex with him when they’re together. He said: “I never have sex more than once with her. Once and then, she is tired.”
I laughed at this. The reason was clear: she didn’t enjoy sex with him. Instead, she saw sex with him as a duty. Dutiful sex is something a lot of women opt into in their marriages. It cannot be enjoyed.
You’re good in bed if your wife doesn’t have sex with you out of a sense of duty. If she looks forward to having sex with you. One of the signs that she looks forward to sex is if you both have sex a lot when she is around. There were times when I had sex with my fiancé five times a night!
When a man is good in bed, there would be signs!
