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How to Sit on a Man’s Face

by | Sensual Intimacy

Apr 27, 2024

Amongst the freakiest of the freakiest couples is the practice of sitting on the man’s face. Yes, you heard that right. You may have even tried it out before. It is likely you got it wrong the first time you tried and have promised to never truly again. With this article, we are attempting to show you the best positions to sit on your man’s face and how to do it. 

1. Talk to your man about it

Don’t just get to sitting on his face. Talk to your man about it. Have him know that it promises to be fun and that you will enjoy it as much as he does. 

You should be able to laugh about it with him, even. Most men are very embracing of the idea as long as they know their woman will be very aroused by it. 

Men find arousal in the arousal of their woman. We talk about this in our article called The Art of Pleasuring Each Other.

If he thinks and believes it is going to make you feel good, he is going to find pleasure in doing it for sure. 

2. Shave

This is a mistake a lot of women make when they sit on their man’s face. They do it without being shaved. This is all shades of wrong. It is going to be bushy down there, and as you know, hair is brittle and can hurt your partner’s face as you rock back and forth on him. 

Except your man insists that you don’t, you have to shave before sitting on his face. Sometimes, it is even better to wax. Waxing leaves your groin area even more bare. No hair means no pain, and no pain means no pleasure. 

3. Be sure to be clean

This means no odor, even in the slightest. Even the smell of sweat. Sweat has a smell, and it is one a lot of men don’t like. So, don’t sit on his face when you haven’t had a recent bath. 

It is good practice for women to wash up even a little when they are about to have sex. It is an even better practice for men. 

The groin is a very moist area. And being most means it is a breeding ground for a lot of the body’s normal flora. Your normal flora are microorganisms that grow in your body without causing any harm. The ones on the skin grow, releasing gases that can smell bad. 

It doesn’t matter whether you feel it is there or not. 

Go wash up even a little before you hop on your man and feed him your face.

Read: Cowgirl Style Position

4. Get the mood right

The mood matters. You have to get it right. Luckily, it is pretty easy to get the mood right when you have sex. 

All you need is some erotic music and some superb lighting. 

Since this is your first try to eat your man’s face, I will suggest you do it when the lights are dim. 

Dim lights make your confidence higher. And confidence is great when trying out wild stuff for the first time. 

5. Begin with foreplay

The role of foreplay is to create at least a little tension and arousal. When trying out something like sitting on your man’s face, both of you have got to be aroused to a considerable extent. 

Be the one who concentrates on his body the more during this foreplay. Push the shaft of his penis into your mouth. Lick it gently so that threads of pleasure whoop his mind, and you can hear him moan.

Now is the time to tease him and say some really wild stuff. For example, playing with his nipples and asking questions like: “Do you know that, Daddy?” It is sure to make him feel some rare pleasure.

You can initiate the face sitting in this position. Say something along the lines of: “Do you want momma to come sit on your face?”

Or something even more erotic, along the lines of: “Can momma come put this fat booty on your face?”

Look into his eye when you say this. I promise you will see something in there, and it is going to be a quiet yearning

6. Begin with 69

Don’t leap into trying out the nasty stuff all at once. Stay in familiar territory even a little. The 69 position is familiar territory, and it can even be considered some kind of foreplay.

In the 69 position, then man lays down flat and the woman mounts him–just this time she doesn’t sit on his penis but on his face. She can lean forward to suck his penis while he licks at her vagina. 

It is a great start for beginners. 

Read: Guide to Clitoral Stimulation for Intense Orgasm

7. Sit on the lying man

Now, you don’t have to suck his penis. You just have to wiggle your butt on his face. Encourage your man to hold your butt when you wiggle. 

Bear in mind that you don’t have to bounce. Bouncing is going to create space between his face and your butt so that when you get back to the starting position, there is pain, and your man feels hurt. 

Don’t create space. Just wiggle. Wiggle in such a way that makes you feel pleasure, too. Ride his mouth like you would ride his dick. 

Be sure not to completely cover his nose so you don’t stop breathing. His breathing is quite important, you know?

8. The half-sitting man

Here, the man sits in a half sitting position. This is the best position to sit on his face because it does not put so much pressure on your thighs or on his body. 

This position works when he is sitting on a chair or when he is sitting in a bathtub. He just half sits, and you sit on him, wiggling your butt. 


Sitting on your man’s face can be such an intimate thing. Every couple has got to try it sometime. 

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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