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How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You: 10 Simple Things that Matter Most to Him

by | Love

Sep 22, 2022

The art of seduction did not begin today. Women have used this art for as long as centuries ago to get men to fall in love and appreciate them more. It has proved effective for that long because we humans are the same, and our emotions work the same way. The fonder a person becomes of another, the bigger chances he will fall in love. In this article, we will show you how to make a guy fall in love with you.

Make him fall in love with you by doing some of these things.

1. Have Him Grow Fond of You

This begins with communicating regularly with him. The aim is to be on his mind for extended periods, such that he longs for your company quite often. 

Strike and maintain engaging conversations with him. At the beginning of the seduction phase, discussing random subjects is fine as long as you can infuse some humor and capture his attention with some great storytelling techniques. 

Later on, you can begin to delve into more personal things. A guy will fall in love and open up to you once he considers you a safe person. Safe people have 3 main attributes: they listen, they talk, and they express emotion. 

Listen to him. Tell him about yourself. Open him up to you so that the love can seep in. 

2. Respect Him and His Opinions

When you have been able to make him open up to you, it is time to show him that he did not make the wrong choice. Show him that no matter what, you respect his opinions and don’t judge him for any of them. 

Judgment, in any form, will drive a man far away from you faster than you can call him a second time. But an open mind will keep him and make him fall in love with you.  

Read: 10 Things Men Really Want From A Woman

3. Check on Him Often

This is also a means to get him very fond of you. Checking on him means you care how he is doing and wish to be there for him when things aren’t going that smoothly. 

You don’t have to do it so much that it becomes clear and creeps him out. In the game of seduction, subtlety is the best shot you have at winning a guy and making him love you. 

Call him when you think he hasn’t been around as often as he usually is. Send him a text that reads: “Hey, I just wanted to check up on you.” 

4. Compliment Him with Words

It is true that verbal compliments mean quite a lot to men. Men want to hear you say these things, and if you say them enough, hitting just the right spots, you can make any guy fall in love with you. 

Compliment his least noticeable but pretty features. Let’s say he has a hidden dimple one has to look at for a long time before spotting. It is a great idea to compliment this, as it will give him the impression that you have been watching him for a long time. 

Compliment his dress sense as well, and suggest changes you would like to see in his fashion every once in a while. 

For example, you can say: “Hey, I think that shirt will look better on you if the color is a bit darker.” 

5. Get Him Gifts

This is a perfect way to get a guy to fall in love with you. Just know when gifts should come and the kind of gifts to give him. 

Typically, a great time to give a guy a gift is just after suggesting that he will do great with a change in an outfit or anything linked to what you will be getting him. 

If you suggest that he look better in a red shirt, then, by all means, get him a red shirt and say: “I meant it when I suggested that you will look better in this.” 

Read: 10 Attractive Things Women Do That Drive Men Crazy

6. Be Vulnerable to Him

Men are heroes. The masculine is inclined to provide for and protect. So, when a need to protect arises, every masculine man will enter into his masculine frame, seeking out the feminine, protecting and loving it. 

When you show vulnerability, you are entering your feminine essence, and any guy will seek you out and begin to protect and love you, especially if you have shown him that you are safe to be around. 

Vulnerability does not mean assuming the position of a weak person. No. On the other hand, it means showing that you are human and have weaknesses you don’t feel ashamed of. 

7. Dress to His Taste

The truth remains that men are visual beings and will be romantically inclined to what sparks that sexual tension within them. This is why dressing sexy and, to his taste, works pretty well to make just about any guy falls in love with you. 

Wear fitted clothes. Give attention to your hair. Be clean and well kept. Reveal just enough skin to make him lose his mind. And, yes, by all means, wear perfect cologne.

8. Use Your Body Language

Yes, we are saying you should flirt with him using nonverbal cues like winking and making body contact at the slightest opportunity that presents itself. 

Hug him whenever the chance presents itself, and hold his hands when you walk. And please make a habit of whispering in his ears. Remember, though, that subtlety is key. Hold his face close and whisper into his ear. 

It can be anything at all. Just say something. 

Read: When to Use Hero Instinct Phrases (And How to Use Them)

9. Visit Him Often

Ask to visit him, and then do so. The goal is to spend a lot of time with him, such that he gets really into you and starts to think about you. 

If he isn’t fine with having visitors at home, you should set up dates with him. Try to have him around you really often.

10. Disappear from Time to Time

You are doing this because you want to give him time to miss you

When a guy misses you, you live rent-free in his head. What this means is that he will fall in love with you before he even realizes it. 


When a guy grows fond of you, he will definitely fall in love with you. This means that you have one task: have him fall in love with you. 

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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