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How To Make a Girl Squirt

by | Sensual Intimacy

Dec 1, 2022

If you’re looking to get down with a girl, you may have thought about ways to make a girl squirt. When you know what you’re doing, making a girl squirt is pretty straightforward. You can do it on the bed, sofa, or the bathroom right as long as you both are comfortable getting down.

Who wouldn’t want to work on their performance in bed and help their partners reach climax? How easy is it to make a girl squirt? On a scale of one to ten, you will be closer to nine than most guys after you read this article.

To learn how to make a girl squirt, read this article from start to finish.

1. Get Her Comfortable

When it comes to women, being comfortable really matters in bed. If she is not comfortable, chances are, she won’t be as mentally and emotionally involved in copulation as expected. 

And you need her to be mentally and emotionally plugged in if you ever want to stand a shot at making her squirt. 

Make her feel calm and relaxed. Before. During. And way after you occupy her. If you are able to maneuver this, you can make just about any girl squirt. 

2. Foreplay

Foreplay is so important because it makes her feel even more relaxed—only this time, there is much more arousal. 

Your foreplay should include many different things. Some guys make the error of only settling with kissing. But kissing isn’t the only kind of foreplay there is. 

There is some touching. Some nipple sucking. And as I will explain soon, there is giving her fellatio as well. Do all of these. 

I suggest you have some cool music playing in the background, just to arouse her further and make her feel calmer. 

Read: 10 Things Women Want in Bed

3. Give Her Head

Many, many women get closest to orgasm than they ever have the first time they receive good head. 

Simply put, good fellatio is magical. It can make any woman feel things she has not felt before. 

Clitoral orgasms are easily achieved when you eat her out right. Even though she might not necessarily squirt as you play around her vulva and clitoris with your mouth, she will be closer to doing so than you know it. 

Read this article to find out how to eat a girl out properly.

4. Use Your Fingers

You can do this separately, or you can do it as you give her head. Whatever you choose, just do it right, and you will have her nearing climax in no time. 

A lot of guys fail at fingering their women properly because they are either not well trimmed (long nails hurt her; it is not rocket science) or because they go too hard. Don’t be these guys. 

Take your time. Go gently while paying attention to her. Repeat whatever moves make her yelp, moan deeply, reach for you, or clench the bedding. 

Read: 10 Signs to Look For to Spot a Horny Woman

5. Don’t Use Condoms If You Don’t Have To

This option is only permitted in couples who have trusted themselves for a long time and who will be fine with a pregnancy if it comes. You might want to skip this option if you don’t qualify as this sort of couple. 

The truth about condoms is this: even though a lot of brands are now thin and flexible, there is still a bit of friction most of the time when you have a condom on. Just as this sensation blocks your own orgasm, it blocks hers. Maybe to an even greater degree. 

So, rip off the condom whenever you want to have that crazy copulation that has you both screaming at the top of your lungs. 

6. Rhythm and Pace

As seen with good poetry (and consummation can be poetic in many ways), rhythm and pace really matter when you pleasure a woman. 

Your strokes should not be all over the place. They should be well placed so that you keep hitting the right spots just right. 

Usually, the first strokes during copulation are slow and very sensual. But gradually, they should become faster and faster and deeper. As you go more in depth, she will squirt in delight.

Pay attention to the strokes that make her feel the most sensations, and keep up with those very strokes. 

7. Some Positions Feel Better

In all, it depends on the woman. But here is the thing: some positions feel better than others and will be easier to squirt in. 

Why? Because, during different positions, the vagina is angled in a way that exposes the G-spot either more or less. 

If you want to make a woman squirt, you have to find her G-spot, stroking it enough to make her gush and shout in ecstasy. 

The G-spot is usually in the upper part of the vagina, about two to three centimeters in. If you are trying to feel it with your hands, it feels something like a ridge. 

Stroke this as much as you can in different positions, and you’ll be able to make your girl squirt. 

Related: 10 Ways to Make Copulation Super Hot and Intimate

8. Pay Attention To Her Contractions

Usually, when a woman reaches or nears climax, muscles along her vaginal wall start to contract. Many women report having sensations of fullness when they are about to squirt. 

If she reports having this or even hints about it, then it is time to go even faster. Even deeper to enhance her pleasure. It is time to maintain your stroke game and stroke her in ways that make her want to scream. 

If she feels full long enough, chances are high that she is going to squirt. 

9. Sex Toys

Sex toys are not the enemy. They are, in fact, your ally in many ways. Use them right, and they will make your sex life spicier and much better. 

Talk to your partner before occupying her about your plan to include toys in your routine. 

Most women will reach orgasm if they use sex toys just right. 

Do not feel weird about it. Just enjoy yourself, and enjoy the feeling that comes with pleasuring your partner. 

Read: 10 Reasons To Avoid Sex On The First Date

10. Take Advantage of Anxiety and Thrill

Anxiety and thrill, the feelings associated with the motion, can make us rush toward climax faster. 

You should take advantage of these feelings when trying to make a woman squirt. Make her feel like she is on her toes like she is about to feel a rush. 

There are many ways to do this. Some couples turn to BDSM to achieve this. Some have pleasured themselves in places where they fear they will be found. 

Whatever it is for you, make sure you are taking advantage of your rush. 

Final Thoughts

While you may think that making a woman squirt is just a pipe dream, it isn’t. There are proven ways you can utilize to make your girlfriend squirt. Many guys do it every day, and you can do it, too. However, in order to make her squirt, you have to pay attention to the strokes that make her feel the most sensation.

Whether you’re getting down for the first time, a serial dater, in a relationship for a long time, or married, following these steps can help you be better in bed.

If you pay enough attention, you will be able to tell when she nears climax, and you will take advantage of this to make her squirt. 

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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