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How to make a girl jealous

by | Love

Apr 14, 2024

Jealousy has always been one of the best tricks to revive attraction, and hold this attraction so high your partner thinks of nothing else but you and the relationship you both share together. Sounds easy, but it actually isn’t so easy. A lot of people miss it with the jealousy stunt and mess things up altogether by overdoing it. In this article, I will be helping you make sure you get it right. I will be showing you how to make her feel jealous.

1. Be on your A-game

If you’re going to make a girl jealous, then you have got to be on your A game at all times. 

Bear in mind that jealousy is a possessive emotion that drives us to covet. And we almost always only want to covet things that mean a lot to us. 

You will not mean much to her if you are not on your A game. 

That is to say, if you are not commited to your dreams and your purpose. While men are attracted to women on the basis of feminity, women want a man who is very focused on his purpose. 

Found your purpose yet in life? If you have, then it is an addition to you. 

If you have not, then you have some work to do figuring out just what brings you to this world, what life expects of you. 

In the coming weeks, I will be showing you just how you can find your purpose and walk in it n

2. Don’t be too available

Overtime, what is too available begins to appear very cheap. 

You don’t want to look that way before your girlfriend. You want to look like such a big prize. Something that she vies to get. 

The moment you begin to appear that way in her subconscious, something will start to take place in her. She will unknowingly find that she is becoming more jealous than she normally would. 

This is because her mind has entered protective mode. 

It has begun to say: “He isn’t giving you that much desire anymore. It can only mean that he is giving it to someone else.”

That’s jealousy. Pure and unbridled jealously. It is so beautiful because you didn’t have to do too much to get her to feel that way. 

3. Don’t seek desire from her

There is nothing that kills attraction than consistently trying to fish out desire from a woman. 

I like to say this all the time. There is really no substitute for genuine desire in this world. Genuine desire cannot be negotiated.

It just happens. Many times, when we desire something or someone so deeply, we don’t even know why. 

Think of all the people whom you have had a strong desire towards. 

Thank about how it started. How it almost felt like you were losing your mind. They were always on your mind, and they never had to ask “Do you want me?” Because they knew, seeing how clear it was, that you wanted them. 

If you are in the habit of trying to milk desire from her by saying things like:

  • “Tell me how much you love me.”
  • “Promise me you will not cheat on me with other guys.”
  • “Promise me you will do anything to keep your us from breaking up.”

I have got some bad news for you:

“You are on the way to break your relationship apart with your own hand. 

Such a relationship will not stand for long. If it even stands at all. You are showing her that she is in control. There is no need for her to long for you since you are doing all the longing yourself.

She, therefore, cannot be jealous. 

If you seek to grow true jealousy from her without making it obvious, you have to find ways to flip the coin. She must become the one who seeks your love and comfort. She must become the one who pushes you to promise her a ‘forever.’

This is her role. She is going to fill it nicely, and that jealousy is going to push an affair that both you and her are going to truly enjoy. 

Read: Things to Say to a Woman During a Call to Make Her Wet and Longing for You

4. Say little: but do much

Men who are unpredictable are the best men to be with, many women agree. 

The trait of being unpredictable is one that drives women into a position where they are unsure. 

Women want to be sure about most things. They function that way. They want to be sure that a man loves them before ever thinking about commitment. 

They want to be sure that he will be with them long enough before ever considering sex with him.  

A man who makes them unsure is one they will pull two tricks on:

The first trick is that they will threaten to leave him. If their desire for this man is not so great, they may actually leave him. 

The second trick is that they will seek their answers themselves by showing behaviours that they think will grab the man. 

Think of it like winning the man over

It is in pulling off this trick that they shoot themselves in the leg. As they try to please him, over time, they see that they want him even more than before. 

The jealousy comes in, and things get truly enjoyable. For the man, at least. 

5. Attract other women

If you are going to make her jealous, then you have got to show her that other women want you too.

You don’t have to put it in her face. This is going to make things too obvious and blow your cover. 

You will find ways to let her figure it out on her own. 

So she suddenly realizes that: “Wow. So many other women want my man.”

How you do this is up to you. 

But here are some tricks that I have tried, and these tricks almost always work:

Reply to female compliments with a warm thank you: 

If you are a guy who keeps himself clean and takes care to make sure he looks good, you are sure to get a tonne of compliments from other women. Your girlfriend wants you to ignore these compliments. But don’t. Respond to them. Let her see that other women want you. Make her jealous.

Call her attention to someone who is looking at you flirtatiously:

And do it innocently. Do it in a way she will never suspect. You can say something like: “That woman there keeps looking at me.”, or “Why do women here look at men so weird?”

6. Have her know you can do fine without her

A woman assumes the role of a dark queen, disregarding you when you start to show her weakness. 

Of all the different forms weakness takes, there is nothing that screams weakness louder than showing a woman you cannot function properly without her. 

I see a lot of guys do this, and I scoff. They say things like:

  • I cannot do without you. 
  • I haven’t been the same since you left.
  • Why aren’t you talking to me? Please talk to me. I love you very much. 

Those things don’t work. They don’t work because the feminine does not apply to the feminine. 

Be masculine. Show her that you can do just fine without her, and she will long for you with a longing, spicey jealousy. 

7. Enjoy the relationship

There are times when this is all there is to do. 

Your constant worry about whether or not the relationship will work, about the need to make her jealous, is subconsciously driving you to act needy. She is sensing this neediness, and is subconsciously responding by resisting her feminine side. 

She cannot be jealous of a man who does nothing but worry about his relationship with her. Who makes himself look small in her eyes. You should never look small in a woman’s eyes.  

8. Pass all her tests

Whenever you give a girl reason to, she is going to test your masculinity. 

She is going to act in a certain way or ask questions that set you up for a fall. 

Pass these tests, and she will desire you enough to show you her jealous side. Fail, and she will show you why you should work to get her approval instead. 

Trust me, you don’t want to fail her tests. You don’t want to be in a relationship run by feminine energy. 

9. Compliment her in a way that glorifies you

“Look how you look like someone who is my girl.”

“You look just like someone I will want in my life.”

There should be a hint of possessiveness in many of your compliments. 

This way, she begins to see herself as your woman and starts to compel herself to act as such. 

10. Be a hero

Be her hero. Everyone wants to be with a hero!

You can definitely make her jealous without overdoing it. 

By QuietYearning Editors

The QuietYearning Team covers everything from relationships to lifestyle to parenting and more. Its team of experts provides in-depth analysis that helps you understand complex topics on relationships.

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