Have you made a girl cum before? I am guessing your answer is either going to be no or a few times. But what if I told you there is a way to make a girl cum every time you have sex with her? In this article, I will be showing you how to make a girl cum.
1. Make her feel at ease
I have seen that feelings of discomfort or anxiety have an effect on keeping orgasms away for both sexes.
Men admit that whenever they are anxious, they tend or cum faster or not cum at all. Women also report something similar.
Oksana says: “When I do not feel at ease when I feel like I am not doing something right, it is hard to cum.”
She is right. If your woman does not feel some kind of ease, she is not going to cum for you.
Make sure you make her feel at ease by:
- Showing her how much you love her. How much you love her body.
- Making her look forward to something with you. Women like to look forward to sex. It is that yearning for sex that is often described as sexual tension in other articles.
- Make her feel secure in the space she is in. If she is in your room, for example, you have to make her feel safe.Make her know that she is safe—That no one is going to badge into the room. Keep the doors locked. Keep the air fresh. Keep the lights dim and beautiful. Make sure there is some music, too.
Read: What is Squirting? Understanding Female Orgasms
2. Arouse Her
When you are sure she is at ease and comfortable, it becomes time for you to arouse her. The art of arousal is one that a lot of guys don’t know. They rush through this, yet somehow expect to make their woman cum. It really does not work that way.
If you’re going to make her cum, then trust me, you are going to have to arouse her.
There are three ways to arouse a woman: verbally, non-verbally, and with touches.
It is such an art when you learn to do it.
- Verbal arousal: this is when you talk to her in a tone and manner that gets her wet. You’d be surprised to find out that when a woman likes a man, just the sound of his voice is usually able to turn her on. Say the most nasty things to her.
- Nonverbal: this is where you use your facial expressions to turn her on. You really don’t have to do too much. Just a gentle smile can make a difference.
- Bodily arousal: this is when you use your own body to arouse her. Get it right here, and there is such a big chance that you will make her cum. Women like touches. Like men do. Just that with women, as I will be showing you, it is not merely physical. There is an emotional part of things. So, you touch her, attempting to arouse her, and do so with emotion.
The primary emotion here? Care. Show her that with each touch, you are caring about her body. That you love how her body folds. That you will help her feel intense.
You can even help her take off her clothes. Women find this very cute and further relapse into the arms of men who are able to do this.
Read: How to Focus on a Girl’s Breasts & Make Her Orgasm
3. Foreplay
When the clothes have all been taken off, then it is time for some foreplay.
An orgasm can happen from here. With many women, at least the lots I have interviewed, orgasms during foreplay are a common thing.
Good foreplay will always tick most or all of these boxes:
They will not feel rushed:
Good foreplay does not feel rushed. It does not feel like one of those things you have to get over with just so you can head over to actually fucking. Take your time. As you kiss your partner, be sure to be doing so from your heart. As you touch them in places they need to be touched, be sure to do so while paying attention to what they do. Or how they react to your touches.
They trigger more intense feelings:
Good foreplay will often make your woman want to have sex. She will sooner or later start asking for your dick. Or she is going to cum. In all, there is a collection of intense feelings and emotions when one does foreplay right.
Good foreplay will teach you something new about your partner’s body:
The thing is, if you are going to make your woman cum, you are going to have to learn how her body works. Most of this learning will happen during foreplay.
Remember that during foreplay, you can do just about anything with just about any part of your body. You can use your lips. You can use your tongue. You can use your fingers.
You can even use a sex toy. Should sex toys be used during foreplay? One might ask. The answer is yes. They can help make your woman cum!
Read: What Does it Feel Like to Make Love to a Woman?
4. Stroke right
The right strokes will bring her to an orgasm real fast. The wrong strokes will take an orgasm far away. Pay attention to stroke depth and stroke rhythm. You can check out one of our articles on how to up your stroke game.
5. Communicate
You don’t have to stay mute. Mute sex is boring sex, and boring sex does not feel great. I don’t think I have met a woman who cums during boring sex.
Talk to her and listen to her. Listen to her moans, the loudness and intensity. Listen for when she feels intense pleasure. Listen for when she feels pain.
Keep at doing whatever brings her pleasure. Avoid what brings her pain.
Also, it is good practice to talk dirty and demand an orgasm.
“Cum for daddy.”
Summary
An orgasm is something a woman is supposed to feel when she has sex with you.
