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How to Make a Booty Call

by | Sensual Intimacy

Sep 13, 2023

Making a booty call is quite simple. A booty call is a romantic liaison or intimate encounter. To make one, all you need is the charisma and the sweetness to make it happen. In this article, I will be showing you just how to make a booty call that never stands you up.

1. Be Confident and Calm

There is a striking difference between calmness and timidity. Whilst the second takes away most of what a woman can potentially feel towards you, the first acts like a love potion. 

It is best to be confident and calm rather than confident and proud. Confidence and loudness feel like pride and arrogance. But when one is calm, his confidence speaks for itself. 

So, when you text that woman or sit with her to talk, remember that you are meant to be confident and calm. You don’t have to do too much or say too much. You just have to do what you think is right. 

2. Deepen the Rapport

When you are trying to turn the woman into a booty call, you first have to build rapport. She has got to know that she is just going to be a booty call, at least for the time being. 

She will, however, only be embracing this knowledge if you both have built a rapport. Otherwise, she is going to be absolutely infuriated by you. 

She is going to feel insulted, and things will end up hitting the wall before they even start. 

You do not want that, trust me. What you want is a woman who is interested in having casual sex with you. 

Read: How to Ensure a Casual Relationship Doesn’t Get Too Serious

3. Make Her Feel Special

She may know you have other booty calls. But if you can make her feel special, if you can let her see that she is not like the rest, then she will make herself into one of your favorite booty calls. 

Men like to think that women are disgusted by male promiscuity. The truth is, many are not. Especially ones who have not been in a committed relationship in a while and aren’t even seeking one. 

These see men who are not committed as incredibly sexy. 

If she knows she is not like the others in your life, each time you make the booty call, she is going to come through for you. 

4. Go on Dates

Yes, you should go on dates with a woman who is your booty call. It is another way of showing her how special she is to you. 

The rule of thumb is: if she finds out that she is special to you, even when she is not your girlfriend, she is going to come through for you when you need that booty call. 

I have seen this happen a lot of times. 

One time, a girl I was seeing told me the reason she always showed up when I invited her over was because I made her feel special. 

These things mean a lot to women. And I will tell you this for free. They mean more than you know. 

Read: How to Hook Up On Tinder: A Cheat Code for Guys

5. Flirt More

That she is your booty call does not mean she is not in need of charm. Trust me, she wants to be charmed by you. The more you charm her, the bigger the chances that she will come around when you make that booty call. 

Ubong says: “A woman who is charmed by you will want to be with you all the time. So, even before you make the call, trust me, she must have been prepared to come. She must have even been waiting for the call to come in the first place.” 

This is true, and I have seen it happen all the time. 

Flirt more with her. 

6. Hit Her Up a few Hours Before You Invite Her Over

I know there are guys who hit up their booty calls from out of nowhere and invite these women over right away. 

Whilst this works sometimes, it does have a surprisingly low success rate. 

Every 10 times you do something like this, you can expect her to come only 2 times. 

That is too low. What works, however, is establishing contact before inviting them over. 

Tell them that you have missed them and try to keep tabs on what has happened in their lives lately. This works. I know it because I have tried it. 

7. Invite Her

Your manner of approach counts when you make that booty call. 

If you make it feel like she is a fling, you can trust me on this one: she is not going to come. 

However, if you make her feel special, you can trust that she will. 

Make coming over much more enticing to her by offering to come pick her up or sending a cab over. 

Most of the women who say no to booty calls don’t do so because they don’t want to come. They do so because it is a bit stressful moving over to the man’s house. Make it easy for her. 

Read: 15 Signs to Recognize a Girl Who’s Looking for a Hookup

8. Don’t Sound Desperate

Desperation is very antagonistic to attraction. Women are subtle believers that a desperate person is not safe to be around.

That desperation is going to make her say no. Don’t be desperate. Tell her to come over and hear what she says. 

If she says no or something that shows her being hesitant, you can shrug it off by offering her something. 

Entice her with a desire. Say: “You should come, though. I made that meal you like.” 

This works most of the time. 

9. Clean Your House

Yes, you should clean your house. No woman wants to come over to meet a very dirty house.

And the truth is, if your house is clean all the time she comes around, she will want to come around more. 

Making a woman very comfortable and saying no to you is going to be one of the hardest things ever. 

I know this for a fact. 

Read: What Do Guys Think About The Girls They Hook Up With

10. Enjoy Yourself

Don’t just rush into the sex. Take things slow, but be sure to enjoy yourself. 

Summary

Booty calls make life easier, don’t they?

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The QuietYearning Team covers everything from relationships to lifestyle to parenting and more. Its team of experts provides in-depth analysis that helps you understand complex topics on relationships.

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