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How to Kiss a Girl

by | Love and Romance

Jun 9, 2022

The question “how to kiss a girl” has to be one of the most commonly asked questions amongst guys who are just about to have a first, second, or maybe even third kiss. If anything, it isn’t difficult to answer. Because there are no rules, that is it. There are no rules. Only a few guidelines. And here are some. This is how to kiss a girl: 

1. Woo the Girl

Well, I am guessing before you even consider kissing a girl, you must’ve already wooed her. She must already like you. But, hey, I just have to say this. Woo her some more. Have her attracted to you much more than ever. 

You will be very surprised how cooperative women can be when they are with men they are very attracted to. They make things much easier, and you wouldn’t even have to stress yourself. 

Related: How to Woo a Woman: 3 Ways to Get Her to Say Yes

2. Turns Out Bad? And So What? 

No, I am not saying you should go out there and give that woman a bad kiss. No. Far from it. What I am saying is that you shouldn’t give in to the convincing anxiety that suggests the kiss will be awful. 

You haven’t even kissed her yet. You can’t possibly know if the kiss will be great or not. Well, you can know it will be great. Be confident. She wants you. You want her. When people want each other much, the romance takes on its best appearance. 

Related: How to Know When to Kiss a Girl

3. Relax

Okay, you have got to relax. Just stop fidgeting. Don’t be shy or anything. Get yourself together. 

Look into her eyes, and make sure you both are comfortable. For the kiss to turn out fine, you have to be comfortable, and so does she. 

Talk about random stuff. I’d recommend stuff that makes you both laugh, as laughter is a great way to shred anxiety. 

Read: How to Kiss a Girl You Love

4. Get Into It

Kiss her. Depending on how the mood is set, you might have to ask, and you might not. 

But when you kiss her, begin with the lips. Aim to feel every emotion you can possibly feel from kissing her. 

Let your lips play. And then your tongues, and then your hands. Be very into it. 

A great way to increase the intensity of a kiss is to step back once in a while, some kind of pause, and look into their eyes, then kiss them once more. During this pause, you can say something romantic. Works great, too. 

Related: 10 Signs That He Enjoyed The Kiss

5. It Takes Two to Tango

I don’t know what you have heard or seen in movies, but if you are to kiss that girl right, it is going to take both of you to make that happen. 

This is why I stressed in the opening paragraphs that you have to woo her some more so that she makes things easier for you both.

As you kiss her, be sensitive to what she is trying to do. If she is trying to initiate some kind of style, let her. You both work together to make that kiss amazing. 

Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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