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How to Have Car Sex

by | Sensual Intimacy

Apr 22, 2024

Car sex is such an intimate act. One that makes sex feel different and more spontaneous. Sadly, a lot of people struggle with having great car sex, especially first-timers. Our survey of 20 people who had sex in a car for the first time shows that most first-timers feel very awkward during car sex. 

“It felt as though something was lacking. I cannot describe what. But something was surely lacking. 

– Dele 

“There was an aching in my muscles right after. I know this happened because I was basically clueless. I didn’t know what to do.”

– Aina 

“It just kept getting worse.”

– Justina 

Here is how you have great car sex:

1. Begin in the front seat

The sex may not have to begin in the front seat, but the foreplay has to. This is because, in the front seat, you will likely be in an intimate position. You will be able to face each other and look into each other’s eyes. 

In the front seat, begin to kiss your partner. Hold at their face and kiss them deeply. Rub their bodies and, perhaps, stroke their nipples. If you are still having issues stroking your partner, you should check out our article about how to stroke your partner’s nipples

2. Look around: Are you safe?

Things are about to get more intense. So, as much as you can, lower the anxiety that you feel. 

One of the most common problems with having sex in a car is anxiety. This anxiety is likely to make you and your partner very clumsy, and as a result, you will be unable to do things you have in mind. You will hit your hands on this car part and hit your arm on the other, and it is going to keep getting worse.

So, look around. Is anyone watching? If yes, then you have to move the car to someplace safer. If no, then you can stay. But remember to wind up the glass and put on the AC. 

The AC just has to be on during car sex. There are no two ways about it. Or do you want heat stinging your skin and pulling sweat?

3. Put on some music

The good thing is, you are in a car. There are loudspeakers everywhere, and there is a radio player that can blow you up with the most sensual songs ever. 

Put some of that music on. In the coming weeks, we will be reviewing 10 best albums to help your sex life. That will be an article for people who like some music in the background when they are having sex. 

4. Do you have to undress completely?

Normally, I’ll say no. But it is your sex, and you should do what you choose. Many people argue that sex in a car should not happen when you both are undressed. Whilst I agree, I cannot say you should do this or that. 

Just be aware that this is spontaneous sex and that if something goes wrong, you should be able to do damage control quickly enough. 

5. Lean over and give him a blow job

He has to pull his pants down. At least to his lower thighs. And then he has got to pull his seat back so that there is enough space for you to put your face between his thighs. 

Now, give him a blow job. And be sure to pay attention to his body. 

A good blow job is going to be a very sensual thing. Something that makes his entire body shake. 

You can and should stroke his nipple when giving the blow job. I bet you he is going to love it very much. 

6. Give your woman head

Now it is time to do yours. Don’t just rush into giving her head, however. Stroke her nipples for some time and then dig into between her thighs and begin to make her feel amazing. 

Stroke the tip of your tongue along the knob of her clitoris, over and over. She is going to moan. You should moan, too. I have found that moaning when giving head, even when you may not be the one to feel a bulk of pleasure, can make sex feel better. 

7. Go to the back seat: or not

Now that the actual penetrative sex is to begin, it may be time to go to the back seat. Or not. 

If you are staying in the front seat, there are a number of positions for you to try. The best one is the cowgirl. 

It is going to be very comfortable for her and isn’t going to hurt at all. She can sit on your dick while holding the headrest of the car for support. 

The reverse cowgirl also works. 

8. The missionary works

The missionary position works pretty well in the backseat if you adjust the seats enough. 

She does not have to be flat on her back. She can raise her upper back up and you can be in the plank position. A lower plank isn’t going to hurt your arms. 

Begin stroking slowly. During car sex, slow strokes make the difference. Be sure to try out every stroke game you know, and be sure to do the first stroke maneuver. 

You can pause mid-stroke, regress back, and give her head. 

Women admit that they love it much when a man pauses sex just to give them good head. 

9. The 69 Position

You must know the 69 position. It is one of the best positions to try out when you are having car sex. It is both sensual and beautiful, and one cannot help but feel things. 

I will gladly recommend it when you make out in a car. 

10. Get creative

Get creative with your partner as you both continue to have amazing car sex.

Having sex in a car is super amazing when you know just what to do. Some of the best sex I have ever had happened in a car.

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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