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How to Give a Tantric Massage to Your Woman

by | Sensual Intimacy

Sep 30, 2022

Here’s the real deal: a tantric massage just might be what your woman needs to reactivate her sexual energy and awareness. And guess what? You are just the guy for it. In this article, we will be showing you how to give a tantric massage to a woman—tantric massages on women are called yoni massage and require quite the skill if you are to do them properly.

What You Will Need to Give a Woman One

  • A quiet room 
  • Some scented candles
  • Some music, if you love music 
  • Some oils
  • Your hands

5 Steps to Give a Tantric Massage to Your Woman

1. A Quiet Room

The first thing you have got to do is set the atmosphere right. This means getting into a clean, quiet room where it seems like the rest of the world does not quite exist. If you want, you can play some soothing music and light-scented candles to provide just the erotic vibe needed. 

Related: Top 10 Health Benefits of Tantric Massage

2. Have Your Partner Lie on Their Back

Proper posture makes the difference. So, your partner has to be lying on her back on a comfortable surface such as a bed or table, with her legs spread out so her external genital area (her vulva) can be easily reached. 

Needless to say, she should be naked, practicing a couple of breathing exercises. 

The massage is about to begin. Have her close her eyes and focus on the energies around her. 

3. Begin Like Every Regular Massage

Typically, a tantric massage begins like a regular massage. The difference is it usually gets to the sensitive points of the body. 

To begin a tantric massage, you’ll need some oil for smoothness so your hand glides over the skin without much friction. Any oil is fine, even scented oils.

Message her legs, and then her arms, and other parts of her body as well. 

Now, message her breasts in circular movements, paying special attention to her nipple. Stroke her nipples, but not so hard it begins to hurt her. 

Read: 10 Adventurous Things You Should Try In Bed

4. Go Down There

Now, return to massaging her inner thighs but this time, go high enough to be on her vulva. Rub her vulva in gentle circular movements, feeling the wetness around her. The vulva is made of soft tissue that can offer real pleasant sensations, so you might want to be there for a while so that she feels everything. 

Next, move from her thighs to her vulva as though trying to channel energy up there. 

Remember to be gentle with the touches so you don’t elicit any form of pain or discomfort. 

Related: What is Tantric Massage and How does it Differ From a Normal Massage

5. Stimulate Her Clitoris

A woman’s clitoris is the most sensitive area of her body. Stimulating her can bring her to feeling sensations that would revive her energy. This is typically what tantra is about: harnessing sexual energy. 

Use the ball of your thumb to stroke her clitoris slowly, bringing her to the point of orgasm as many times as you can. Repeat the procedure over and over until she feels she’s had just enough. 

This way, the sexual tension welling up in her will bring her to a certain awareness that eases her up. A yoni massage can bring just about any woman real close to orgasm. 

By Sara Leandro

Sara Leandro is a certified health coach who helps others feel their best through individualized lifestyle changes that meet their unique needs and health goals. She covers topics ranging from health and productivity to relationships.

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