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How to French Kiss a Girl

by | Love and Romance

Jun 10, 2022

French kisses or deep tongue kisses, when done right, are one of the most romantic things out there. They will have you and your woman feeling things one doesn’t feel too often. That connection, that intensity, as lips and tongue merge, is everything. In this article, I’ll guide you through steps to French kiss a woman, especially one you love: 

1. Clean Your Mouth

French kisses are not just pecks. They last pretty long sometimes, and a clean mouth is a necessity. Be careful to brush your tongue properly. 

You don’t necessarily have to get right to kissing just after brushing your teeth. This could have the flavor of your toothpaste or mouthwash all in your partner’s mouth. 

You can do so, let’s say, about thirty minutes before the kiss—it works just fine. 

Related: How to Kiss a Girl You Love

2. Be Comfortable

With French kisses, one cannot risk being uncomfortable. As mentioned earlier, the kiss will last long, so you just have to be comfortable. 

If you are one who doesn’t love public display of affection (PDA), then you should get inside. You know, a private area like your bedroom. If, on the other hand, PDA doesn’t affect you much, then it doesn’t harm to sit in public and have that kiss. 

Just be sure it is legal to have a kiss there. 

Related: How to Kiss a Girl

3. Get in the Mood

Now you aren’t expected to just go right into kissing anyone. You have to set the mood right so that you get their romantic interest for you peaked.

Getting into a mood for a kiss is one of the simplest things to do out there, especially if your partner is attracted to you—just a little flirting here and there: body contact and then some romantic words. 

Look your partner in the eye. Place your hands over their jawline. Tell them they look beautiful. Lick your own lips. This is going to prepare them for the kiss mentally. 

Related: How to Know When to Kiss a Girl

4. Lean in For the Kiss

Just like it is done with every normal kiss, lean in for the kiss just after you have set the mood right. 

This kiss doesn’t have to be a French kiss at the start. It could be a normal kiss, at least just let. 

Begin by kissing their lips. Some merging here and there. No tongue just yet until the tension builds up even more. If one knows what they are doing, normal kisses build so much tension. And tension, when it comes to romance, is everything. 

Related: How to Kiss a Girl and Make Her Want You More

5. Get Right into it, and Don’t Be Afraid to Explore

When you feel tension bubbling in you, then it is time to initiate that French kiss. Begin with little exploratory maneuvers, like rubbing your tongue across your partner’s lips. 

Then get right to stick your tongue in their mouth. 

Make it teamwork. Notice how your partner responds to your trying to explore and mirror them. 

Massage their tongue with your lips if they stick it out. Kiss, and keep kissing, keeping your mood right. 

It is an emotional connection. Be into it.

Photo by Colin Maynard on Unsplash

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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