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How To Deep Throat Your Man

by | Sensual Intimacy

Jun 21, 2024

Fellatios are a part of the sexual routine of quite a number of couples. They feel great and can help the man to last longer. However, there is one zone, not many women encroach into. This is the deep-throating zone. Not many women know how to Deep throat without the fear of throwing up or gagging. In this article, we help you master the art of a perfect fellatio, one which involves deep throating.

1. Start slow

Don’t just head right into the blowjob. Start slow. Start by kissing him. By rubbing his dick until he is very turned on. 

This is to ease whatever tension you feel. For a fact, you are going to feel some tension. Some anxiety. It is this anxiety that does most of the work to keep you from giving the perfect deep throat. 

Nene tells us: “Deep throats are only hard when you think about them. When you take your mind away from all that could go wrong, you are one step closer to giving the best blowjob ever.”

She is right. Fear can make our body enter into defensive mode. And one of the defensive modes that show up during fellatio is the gag reflex. I will be talking about this soon. The gag reflex can be your greatest enemy if you are trying to deepthroat a man. 

2. Don’t push it into your mouth yet

Before his penis even enters your mouth, you have to get your body to become used to his size. The thing is, our minds and bodies are very interesting. Your body can assess the level of danger and object or, in this case, what a penis is capable of. 

If you rush right into putting him in your mouth, you don’t give your mind the time to tick his size off as safe. 

Hauwa tells us about this one time when she had sex with someone whose penis hadn’t even been that big. She tells us that her perception of his length and grith had a huge part to play in the sex. 

“My mind assumed he would feel big,” She said: “And so my body responded the same way.”

Allow your mind to mark his dick just right to be deep-throated. Do this by holding his dick in your hand. Stroking it. Imagine what it will feel like in your mouth—be sure that this imagination is not birthed by fear. 

When this happens, you will be surprised that not only does the anxiety go away, you become even more eager to have his dick in your throat. 

Read: What Does Cum Taste Like?

3. Have him in your mouth, but tip first

Don’t just push him into your mouth all at once. Start by having the tip in your mouth and then other parts of him.  

A great way to do this is to wind your tongue over the cap of his penis. This is going to be really pleasurable to him, I assure you, and may even make him want to rush things. 

But don’t. Don’t rush things. 

Have the tip in your mouth, and then slowly push the penis until half its length is inside you. Now, pull back and practice breathing through your nose. 

Breathing through your nose is often able to suppress your gag reflex. Do this over and over again until you no longer see the need to cough. 

4. Moisten his penis as much as possible

For anything to have that safe entry into the throat, it has to be moist. And I don’t mean just “moist.” I mean, it has to be very moist. 

This means you have to get very messy. You may think he has a problem with you being messy. But I assure you that it is all in your head. 

More men believe that a blowjob should be moist and nasty. 

Henry tells us: “There is no such thing as a blowjob that is too moist. It just doesn’t exist. I mean, the wetter it is for me, the better it is.”

More than three-quarters of the men who take part in our surveys agree with him. 

So, by all means, spit on his dick. Use your hand to spread that spit across. You’re pleasuring him. And I assure you that you don’t know how much. 

Read: How to Finger Yourself

5. Try the first time

You may not always get the deepthroat right the first time. In fact, the chances that you get it right are quite slim.

But the first time you try, be sure that you do all of this:

Depress Your Tongue: 

With your mouth fully open so that the distance between your upper and lower palate is enough to house his dick completely, depress your tongue. It should be flat on your mouth. 

Breathe Through Your Nose:

Breathe through your nose. This will make it less likely for you to pant for air. It is panting for air that really triggers the gag reflex. That and perceived trauma to the muscles and tissues behind the throat, like your uvula and tonsils. 

No Trauma:

Try not to traumatize any organs of your throat. This means that you have to take him into you gently. Remember that you have gotten used to his size. It should not scare you. In fact, you should be pretty confident that you can have all of him inside you. Also, remember that gentle does not always mean slow. 

Many women agree that taking the entire length of the dick in a few seconds works better than taking it slowly over many seconds. Just do what works for you. It should be safe, however. 

Read: How to Give Good Head – 10 Blow Job Tips

Don’t be Scared to Puke:

You can talk to your man about this beforehand, but I am sure he is not going to have a problem with It. Most men don’t. Don’t be scared to puke. Don’t let that get in the way of a good fellatio. 

6. Try again

Yes, with some improvements this time. 

Men love to be deepthroated. You should never be too scared to try. 

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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