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How to be More Feminine

by | Ideas

May 15, 2023

Feminine women will always win in love when it is men and women involved. This is because there is a polarity between the masculine and the feminine that makes men seek the feminine women out. The feminine makes the masculine feel safe. In fact, the feminine makes everyone feel safe. If you have been having a lot of trouble with the men in your life, this may be due to the non-obvious fact that you are not feminine enough. This is how to do better, how to be more feminine.

1. Change Your Perception of the Feminine

A lot of women consider the feminine as being ‘weak.’ And this makes them dislike any suggestions that they have to be more feminine. 

The truth is, it is quite wrong to think that the feminine is weak. It is not. In fact, the feminine, like the masculine, is one of the strongest virtues in the world. 

Together, they keep the world of attraction in balance. For a thing to be in balance, the opposing forces have to be equal in terms of magnitude. I promise this is not science class. 

This, therefore, suggests that the masculine and the feminine are equal in magnitude. One is not better or greater than the other. The feminine is essential for keeping relationships going. It is essential if love is to ever exist. 

That is not being weak!

2. Become More Agreeable

Agreeableness is one of the most important features of the feminine. 

Unlike their masculine counterparts, which may draw juice from being antagonistic, seeing that they either fall into being heroes or villains, the feminine woman draws juice from being agreeable. 

She is tender but not weak, so she stays away from anything that will chip the bones of her mind. 

She hates drama, and even when she may be right, she avoids drama because she is not made to house so much of it. 

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3. Be Around Kids More

A lot of people scoff when I first say this to them. But they go on to try it out, and it becomes clear that this works. Being around kids more is going to help because it brings out the side of you that really nurtures. 

You will get to experience love in a very pure form. You will get to see your strength, your beauty, and your femininity. 

If you are not a kid lover, at first, it may be hard to be around kids. But over time, you will get very used to it. If you will come to love your man as much as you love kids, your relationship is going to become a lot better. 

4. Speak with Grace

It is important that women learn to speak with grace, as it makes them more appealing to the masculine. 

Graceful speaking is speaking in a way that does not wound. But rather, in a way that makes a person feel better about themselves. 

They could be in the worst situations. But the moment you speak to them, they begin to feel better. 

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5. Dress Elegantly

A woman’s dress sense is going to make her appear more feminine or more masculine.

So, if you are trying to be feminine, you should pay more attention to your wardrobe. 

Go on fashion blogs and try to see which dresses will look best on you. Don’t just get up in the morning and step out in anything you want. 

Feminine women are careful with what they wear. They wear what fits and spend a lot of time figuring out what to wear next. 

I am not suggesting that you become obsessed with fashion. I am only saying that you should pay attention. 

Wear your hair perfectly. If you want to use braids, be sure that those braids are well done. If you are sticking to keeping your hair low, be sure that they look very good.

6. Pay Attention to Hygiene

A woman who pays attention to hygiene will generally be considered more feminine. 

Women should be sure to trim the hair around their armpits and pubic area. We have an article to help you trim your pubic area perfectly

Wear the right perfume. There are a number of feminine perfumes out there I will eagerly recommend. Get some. They don’t have to be expensive. 

Don’t wear perfumes meant for men. 

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7. Hang Out with More Girls

If you meet women who are more tilted to the masculine side, more times than less, they will tell you that they spend most of their time around men. 

The energy from men rubs off on them, and they begin to show more masculinity than femininity. 

This changes when you start to hang around women. And I mean women from every age bracket. Women your age. Women slightly older. Women slightly younger. The list goes on and on. 

Don’t fall for the wrong perception that female relationships are less genuine than male ones. It is not true. You can have feminine friends who are going to change your life. 

8. Understand Your Feelings More

The feminine ‘feels’ a bit more than the masculine, which is said to be more logical than feeling. 

You can be more feminine when you start to understand your own feelings. Do not think that your feelings are the enemy. 

In fact, they are on your side and can help you understand yourself more. 

Pay attention to when you feel sad and how that impacts the rest of your life. 

When you understand your feelings, you will start to understand other people more. This means you will become more nurturing. 

Read: 15 Qualities Men Are Looking For in a Woman

9. Embrace Your Sexuality

The feminine is often told to be less embracing of sexuality. 

While this is good advice, I do not think it is properly framed. 

The advice should be: “Do not have sex with a lot of people.” 

By all means, embrace the fact that you are a sexual person. That is embracing your femininity. 

10. Be Yourself

When trying to be more feminine, DO NOT PLAY DRESS UP. 

Read: 7 Qualities All Strong Women Have In Common


The feminine is not weak. You should strive to be feminine if you seek love from the masculine. Be more feminine and enhance your femininity with our practical tips and advice. Feel confident, empowered, & beautiful inside and out.

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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