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How to Achieve a Full Body Orgasms

by | Sensual Intimacy

Dec 28, 2023

This article is going to be split into two parts. In the first part, we will be showing you how to achieve a full-body orgasm when you are having sex with a partner. In the second, we will be letting you see how full-body orgasms work when you are going solo. 

The Basics

The term ‘full body orgasm’ tends to confuse a number of readers. Do full-body orgasms mean that you have an orgasm going on in every part of your body? Of course not. Full-body orgasms describe an orgasmic feeling that sort of runs through almost all parts of your body, causing full-body movements and sensations.

Ever had one of those orgasms where your legs shook for some time and it felt like you could do nothing to stop it? Those are full-body orgasms. 

Can anyone get them? Of course, yes. Men like to think that full-body orgasms are reserved for just women. But this is not true. Anyone who can have an orgasm can have a full-body orgasm. 

It seems, though, that women may be more prone to having full-body orgasms since the muscles of their pelvic floor become very active during an orgasm, sending waves up—they also happen to have more hot spots

Don’t hate biology, though.

How to Achieve a Full Body Orgasm When Having Sex with a Partner

1. Foreplay

Good foreplay cannot be overlooked. Its place in getting you aroused to the point where an orgasm comes easy cannot be questioned. On average, men and women who took part in our email survey admit that they have orgasms sooner and more often when they pay attention to foreplay.

Allow some more time for foreplay. It does not only have to be kissing and head all the time. Introduce something more fun, like roleplaying. We have a couple of articles up about how you can spice sex up. You may want to check them out.

Your foreplay should last at least 10 to 15 minutes. That way, your body has room to prepare itself for the pleasure that will surge through it soon. 

2. Pay Attention to Stroke game

Your stroke game can give you an orgasm or take one from you. 

Have you ever been so close to an orgasm, only to miss it along the line because you had changed your stroke pattern? I know for a fact that a lot of women have. 

On a TikTok that went viral a couple of years ago, women were asked to describe what sex felt like, and one of the women said: “It feels like being let down at the very moment when the climax was in your gaze.”

I immediately understood what she meant. 

You can achieve a full-body orgasm when you time your strokes right. 

3. Think Erotic

Yes, your mind does not have to be flying all over the place when you are trying to achieve an orgasm.

You have to think about the sex and about achieving an orgasm. One of the most searched porn keywords are: “Cum” and “Orgasm.”

Do you wonder why people search for that? I do not. I know that those searches are done because seeing or thinking about an orgasm, especially a full-body one, can help you get your own orgasm.

Look in your partner’s eyes. Think of the most erotic and arousing thing about them and try to act it out.

The deeper your thoughts go into the moment, the more the chances that you will have an orgasm. 

Do not let any forms of anxiety take hold of you. Anxiety, especially performance anxieties, can steal the genuineness of what you and your partner can eventually share.

4. Try Out Kinks: And Don’t Be Afraid about Peeing

This is one of the mistakes that keeps a lot of women from reaching a full-body orgasm. They are just too scared the pressure they feel in their pelvic area around the time when an orgasm draws close is pee. 

It might be, but a lot of the time, it is not. It is all in your head. 

Let yourself go and enjoy your orgasm

5. Don’t Rush it

A lot of men make the mistake of rushing an orgasm. Don’t do this, especially when you are having sex with a lover.

Kiss them whilst your body throbs. Hold them. Maybe even have them suck at your dick.

It may feel as though you just got ten times more sensitive, but that is because you did! Flex that full-body orgasm.

How to Get a Full Body Orgasm When Going Solo

It is possible to get a full-body orgasm when you are going solo. Here is how: 

1. Use Your Imagination

This does not suggest that you should turn to porn all the time. 

If porn helps you, you may have to make use of it every now and then. But every once in a while, make good use of your imagination.

Think of the last time you had sex: of the one person you are trying to be with. 

2. Stroke Right

Yes, like regular sex, the art of self-pleasure is a delicate one. 

You don’t have to stroke without a rhythm. 

Guys who know how to stroke understand that orgasms are a thing that can be gotten anytime. 

You can get a full orgasm by stroking your dick good, and thinking about the best sex you have had. 

3. Move Your Legs

Moving your legs can mimic sex and trick your body into believing you are having actual sex.

This can help you reach a climax much sooner. 

And trust me when I say that you are going to have such a mind-blowing full-body orgasm.

4. Let Yourself Flow

When you feel that orgasm coming, do not hold back. 

Let yourself enjoy this!


Full body orgasms are quite common. Everyone has them, so why shouldn’t you? Try out what we have suggested. 

By Martin Corden

Martin Corden is a certified relationship expert and a songwriter from Australia. He loves researching and writing. Martin loves finding new ways to improve and inspires others to be their best version and work together towards it. Martin has a wide range of intellectual and artistic interests.

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