Some women still prefer phone calls to texts. This was the result of a survey we conducted by email. More than half of the women said they would rather talk to their lover, or a potential lover, on a phone call than through texting. It goes to show that when it comes to attracting women and keeping that attraction, guys who know how to make conversation interesting on a phone call stand a better chance. They can easily woo women and get past the seduction and interaction phase. Here is how to be make your phone conversations interesting.
1. Understand tone
When people talk in the real world, they don’t solely depend on words and tone to tell what the other person feels. Or how the other person responds. They look at facial expressions too. And since facial expressions are a better marker of emotion, real-life conversations are a lot easier.
The one who talks on phone must be extra attentive to get all the emotions out of a phone call by listening to tone.
You should pay attention to what the other person sounds like at different moments: what they sound like when they’re angry, sad, etc.
This will help push things better.
2. Understand timing
The timing of a phone call is also very important if you’re going to have interesting phone calls and be seen as interesting.
Guys who woo women much over the phone agree that they have some of the best phone calls much later in the evenings. I think this happens because later in the evenings, most women are calm and not bothered by anything.
Ene says: “I like to call my woman in the evenings. I don’t know why, but that is when I get the best version of her.”
Your woman may be different. But I can assure you that she too has some better moments to make a phone call. Can her in her better moments and you stand a much better chance of showing her just how interesting you are.
Read: 20 Things to Say to a Woman During a Call to Make Her Longing for You
3. Be an amazing storyteller
Storytellers are amazing attractors. Most of the men who attract and seduce women are great at telling stories.
Myles tells us; “All the men who have had the most of my day over the phone have been very great at telling me stories. They tell me stories of the most bizarre things and make me laugh so hard it is impossible to not want to make phone calls with them.”
Tell great stories.
Great stories are stories that spark an emotion. Think of every book you have read and I can assure you you can only really remember the ones which made you feel something. It is the stories that make us feel things that count.
Your stories should be responses to questions. Remember that with women, it is such a bad idea to brag. Don’t brag about anything. Just let your stories roll out properly.
4. Ask the right questions
Too many guys are afraid to ask women questions. In real life and over the phone. Their primary fear is usually: what if she gets angry?
While that fear is valid, think about this; what if she doesn’t get angry? What if she comes to see your question as the perfect gate through which a new conversation is going to pass.
Trust me, women like to be asked questions. And most of the time, they like to talk about their deepest beliefs.
Some of the best questions to ask a woman on the phone include:
- What are you doing right now? She is going to answer this quite eagerly by letting you know how her day is going. If she is attracted to you, she is going to tell you all the things that went wrong and trigger your hero instinct.
- Would you be going anywhere later?
- What does it feel like when you’re at work?
- Do you hate the rain as much as I do?
You know, ask her just about anything you would usually ask a woman when you are on a date with her. In fact, come to see a phone call with a woman you are trying to woo as a date. It is better to learn about women through calls and dates than through sex. We talk about this in more detail in our forthcoming book, How to Meet and Seduce Beautiful Women.
Read: 8 Questions to Ask Your Crush
5. Listen
Many guys are impatient or just scared of silence.
We conducted a survey about silence in conversations. We asked guys how they felt when there was silence in a conversation or when one person was speaking for an extended period. Most of them acknowledged that they felt a needto fill this silence up with words.
Savior said: “When a woman is speaking for a long time, I feel the need to step in and talk too.”
Well, you don’t always have to do that. Sometimes, just let her talk. She is talking because she enjoys talking to you. Listen to her and you stand a better chance at hearing her talk to you again and again.
Read: 10 Steps To Developing Effective Listening Skills
6. Stir the attention to the place of best interest
It is important that you pay attention to the tone of your conversation with a woman on the phone. This is why I began the article with tones and how they can be pointers.
On the phone, if you notice that a woman does not respond favorably to a particular topic, try not to discuss that topic with her again. Instead, talk about stuff that she wants to talk about.
Keep moving the conversation that way, and you’re going to make your phone conversations interesting.
7. Let her stir the conversation too
Conversations are a two-way street. They are very much in both of your control.
Don’t be the only one to direct where the conversation leads. Every now and then, let your partner take on some of that control.
Let them direct the conversation.
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