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From Hey to Bed: How to Bed Her Fast

by | Sensual Intimacy

Nov 8, 2023

You must know guys who seem to bed many woman they get into talks with. One minute, they are at the hey phase, and the next, they are bedding these women. How do you think they pull it off? Seduction? Not exactly. It’s something more. It’s something very exciting to women, something they can’t resist, and it is called Rizz. That is short for charisma. In this article, I will be showing you how to bring any woman to bed fast.

1. She is Not a Slut

This should be one of the last hints on this list. But I bring it in here to establish a point you don’t have to miss if you are to bed her as fast as possible.

I tell guys this all the time. That she makes it easy for you does not mean she is going to make it easy for everyone. Realizing this is one way to get her to get down with you. 

Of course, if you play the game, I am going to show you just right; she is going to show an intense pull towards you. Just keep in mind that this pull is not one suggesting she is loose. 

Treat her like she is someone worthy of respect. 

2. Where Does the Hey Take Place?

Where the hey takes place has such a big impact on how soon she will follow you into bed. 

You have to look for women who want to have casual sex. One of the best places to find them are:

  • Tinder: Tinder is such a great place to find women who are going to be interested in following you to bed minutes to hours and even days after the hey. Be sure to match the women around you so they can easily stop by your place. 
  • Social Media: other social media outlets are great places to meet women who will be so into you to bed you easily. You just have to make the impression with your profile. Set up your profile right, and she will be head over heels for you. 
  • Clubs and Bars: yes. Clubs and bars are great places to find women who have quite a sexual interest in men whom they’re just meeting. These women often come around to have some fun moments. So, your being there is doing both you and her a favor. 

Read: How to Have Sex with a Friend

3. Make the First Impression Bomb

Admit it. There have been women who approached you and immediately triggered your sexual instinct. 

Still, there have been ones who approached you, and you immediately thought about a relationship. 

Think about the last conservative woman you spoke to. 

The first few words in, and you probably knew you were going to get into a relationship with you—or at least want one. 

Now, think of the more liberal one you recently met. You wanted to sleep with that one. 

Be the liberal guy to her. 

Hit her with a punchy first line that is very flirtatious. You can say: “Hey, I was wondering who this hottie is.”

4. Smell Nice

There is no better way to make an impression that is bomb than smelling nice. 

You have to invest in that cologne. Smell like the man she wants, and she is going to follow you straight to bed days after the Hi. 

Let your cologne speak to her before you even open your mouth. 

Many guys don’t know this. But it is a thing. A man’s cologne can speak to a woman way before he even speaks. 

Let your cologne hit her. 

Elena tells us she is ten times more likely to sleep with a man who smells nice than with one who does not. 

Read: How to Hit on and Have Sex With a Cougar

5. Get Right to Flirting

When you are trying the seduction technique, you may skip flirting for now and just get to know each other. 

But if you just want to get to bed as fast as possible, then don’t skip flirting. 

Begin to flirt the minute you get her number or get into a conversation with her. 

Let your flirting be subtle but a little more humorous than necessary. That is to say, make it a joke. That way, you do not strike her as a creep. If there is anything women do not like, it is a creep. 

Creeps scare them. 

A woman will almost never be in bed with a man who scares her. 

6. Excite Her

This does not mean making her laugh. 

Exciting her means making her feel a range of feelings and emotions. Perhaps some she even runs away from. 

Have you ever heard a woman say, “No one has ever made me feel this way?”

What she means to say is: “No one has ever excited me this way. No one has ever made me feel so many waves of pure emotion.”

Women are loyal to their feelings. 

If her feelings tell her: “We love how this guy makes us feel, bed him.” She is going to bed you even if it is the first day you meet. 

Read: How to Make a Booty Call

7. Make Her want to Prove Herself to You

If she wants to please you, she is going to give you anything. 

Make her want to please you emotionally, and she is going to please you with her body. 

It is a basic seduction tactic. 

Disprove of some of the things she does. And that shame is going to drive her to want to do better. 

You can say: “Your dress does not look good at all.”

Trust me, the following day, she is going to be sporting a dress that looks good. 

Say: “You seem like one who is going to be very boring in bed.”

And she is going to do all she can to prove otherwise by trying to bed you. 

8. Meet Her in an Enclosed Space

Here, things should get heated and the sex should happen. 

Check out a couple of ways to get her in the mood for sex to happen in this article. 

It’s pretty easy to go from hey to bed if you know what to do!

By Ubong

Ubong Johnson is a medic, writer, and editor whose writings explore the complexities of human interactions. He has been published on The Healing Muse, a journal by Upstate Medical University, Blood and Thunder, a journal from Oklahoma University Medical College, and other journals of humanities. Ubong lives in Lagos and is currently undergoing training as a behavioral psychologist.

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