One of the many things that determine how good sex feels is the depth of penetration. When asked whether they prefer girth or length, a surprising number of women agreed to loving length more—and, as such, loved to be in deeper positions more. In this article, we explore one of the deepest sex positions there is. It is called the Deep Impact position.
Everything about this position
The deep impact position gets its name from the degree of depth it provides. It really does go in deep. Many women have agreed that it is one of the deepest positions they have ever tried out.
Mandy says: “The deep impact position makes me feel very shallow even though I am more on the deep side. I love those sensations I feel and would give up anything to feel them again and again.”
Men who have small penises also agree that in this position, they feel a little bigger than they are used to.
Mance says: “Suddenly, you feel so big. Like you’ve been big all along. And quite frankly, it does feel good looking down at your woman and realizing that she is actually enjoying this, and her face can’t even deny it.”
Orgasm may be easier
Orgasm may be easier in the deep impact position because of how deep it goes. Many women admit that depth is a big determinant of orgasms. The deeper a person goes, typically, the more likely they are to bring their partner into orgasms.
This is because an orgasm depends mostly on the pelvic floor muscles. These muscles seem to be a lot more engaged when one is going deep. The deeper, the better, really.
Women like Uloma admit that they get more orgasms in positions like the deep impact position.
She says: “My man naturally has a smaller penis and often feels like he is on the small side. This makes him feel bad about his body and about his ability to pleasure me. But the truth is, the deep impact position makes the difference.”
Performance anxiety may be reduced
Performance anxiety is this anxiety that makes men believe they are not doing well enough.
Four out of ten men in our past surveys seem to have some form of performance anxiety, at least two having more extreme forms that are potent enough to stop them from engaging in sexual activity.
The anxiety seems to border around penis size (girth and length.)
Smaller guys naturally feel not good enough and don’t even want to have sex with women they consider too “thick.”
Positions like the deep-impact sex position make things a lot easier. Now that they feel bigger than normal, they get to experience what it is like to seek the pleasure of their partner without that nagging voice telling them that they aren’t doing enough or would never get it right.
Positions play a big part in the overall mood of sex. We have explored this over and over in quite a number of our intimacy articles.
How to do the deep impact?
It is quite simple to do. The woman lays down on her back with her legs close together and pointing up. It is best if she doesn’t flex or extend her legs at her knees. But she can always do so if she feels any hurt.
The man gets on his knees, facing her. He aligns himself so that his pelvis is completely fitted in hers.
This will make you both look propped up, and this is perfect.
If it makes things any easier, you can place a pillow underneath the woman’s waist. This will make it easier to keep the position stable during action.
What does the woman do?
The deep impact position is one of those positions that don’t demand the woman to do so much.
All she has to do is lie there and be sure the position is not “broken.” That is to say, the deep impact position doesn’t slip into being the regular missionary.
She has to try as hard as she can to keep her legs hanging. And if she can’t, then she may just keep her leg on her man’s shoulder.
It is a great idea for her to attempt to move her waist about. This is going to help her man go deeper. She can rub at his chest and stroke his nipples or just give him a flirtatious look.
Women seem to underestimate how much they can do to participate in sex. Merely looking at a man the way he wants to can make him very aroused.
Henry says: “When my wife looks at me that way, I can tell you something runs through my body. Hard to really tell what it is, but it is an amazing sensation I love very much.”
What should the man do?
The deep impact position demands a lot more from the man. He has to do more than just keep the position from slipping.He also has to stroke just right.
The deep impact position is one of those that tests your stroke game. If your stroke game is right, the position is going to feel truly amazing.
If it is not, you may struggle a little bit.
The man does not have to do too much. You’re already deep enough. There is no need to keep trying to impress her. Just make sure you both are feeling very beautiful things.
If you want to, you can bring yourself a little deeper by moving your knees forward. That is about it.
Deep positions are amazing. You should try at least one out.
Similar Deep Positions
Some positions quite similar to the deep impact position include:
- The Anvil: in this position you go very deep too. Maybe even as deep as you would in the deep impact.
- The butterfly position: this is truly a position of great beauty. We will be exploring it in a separate article soon.
