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10 Best Sex Positions to Stimulate Your Clit

by | Sensual Intimacy

Aug 8, 2023

Clitoral stimulation does not always happen during actual penetrative sex. This is because not all sex positions can stimulate a woman’s clit, since many positions provide some space between the man and his woman. But there are some that can give you the most sensual feelings ever by stimulating your clit. Here are 10 best sex positions to stimulate your clit. 

1. The Missionary

Surprising, isn’t it? Many have come to pretty much overlook the missionary position. But one thing about the missionary position you should know is this: it is one of the best positions for people who are in for having sensual sex. 

If you want to enjoy sex with your partner, the missionary position should be your go-to guy.

When in the missionary position, there is a lot of contact between your partner’s groin and your genital area. This contact is mostly on your clit, so there is, of course, going to be some contact. 

You can make the contact even more intense by performing rocking movements instead of back-and-forth movements.  

This article about groin movements for the best sex is going to help you get all your groin movements right.

2. The Coital Alignment

As the name already suggests, this is the perfect position to have your genital area in direct contact with the genital area of your partner. 

The coital alignment is quite easy to perform. The receiving partner has to lie on their back with a pillow under their waist. 

The inserting partner then has to mount them, moving their groin in very sensual movements.

The coital alignment feels very good, but there are times when it does feel wrong. One such time is when you go too deep into your partner. 

Since it is a position that has a woman pretty open, going too deep is surely going to hurt her. 

3. The Leg on Shoulder I

This is a variant of the missionary position. It is just one that can be said to be ‘extreme.’ Or wild. It is the kind of position you opt-in for when you want to have wild sex. 

It is quite easy to perform. You just have to get in the missionary position and have your partner raise their legs atop your shoulder. There are two variants of this position. This is the first. I will be discussing the second in just a few paragraphs. 

With this one, you have to create some space between your legs. This means one leg has to rest on your partner’s shoulder and the other leg on the other shoulder. It gives your partner space to fill you up and come in contact with your pelvic area and clit.

The leg on the shoulder position is great because it stretches you. This means it can be seen as an exercise. A win-win if you ask me. 

4. The Leg on Shoulder II

I like to call this one the ‘One leg on both shoulders’ position. 

Like the one talked about earlier, you do not place one leg on each shoulder. You place both legs on one shoulder. That means your legs are going to be closed. 

And closed legs mean your clit is going to be in contact with your inner thighs. You may not know this, but it is possible to masturbate by just putting your legs close to each other and rubbing. A lot of women do this even whilst sitting!

This position is going to provide a very similar feel. 

5. The Collapsed Doggy with Closed Legs

The collapsed doggy position with closed legs is yet another way to get your clit strokes. It is very similar to the doggy position, the only difference being that there has to be very little space between your thighs and the bed.

You may be wondering how this position is able to provide optimal clitoral stimulation. The thing is: you wouldn’t know for sure until it happens.

In this position, your partner is going to rock his groin so that it feels as though his penile shaft is rimming your insides. It is a great position to fall into in the middle of the sex. It is not so great when the sex starts. 

6. The Speed bump Position

We have talked about the speed bump position in detail before. You may want to check this article to find out everything you need to know about the speed bump position

The best way to describe it is this: it is one of those positions that are hard to master at first but perfect when you have come to know what they are. 

The speed bump is almost exactly like the doggy position. The only difference is that you will have to put a pillow under your partner, who will be lying flat on her tummy. 

The pillow should sit beneath her thigh area. 

7. The ‘69’ Position

Many have argued that the 69 position is not a sex position in itself. I think, however, that this argument does not hold that much water. It is a sex position, just one that doesn’t offer the chance for penetration. 

In a 69 position, one partner lies facing the ceiling. The other lies atop them but facing the opposite direction like a perfect vertical flip. This means your mouth will be on your partner’s genitals, and theirs will be on yours.

This position works best when you both know how to give head.

8. The Cowgirl

Everyone who has tried the cowgirl position will agree that it gives quite the clitoral stimulation. 

You sit on your partner and rock your groin against theirs. Your clit is surely going to be in the way of all that rocking. This means it is going to be stroked. 

9. The Reverse Cowgirl

This is the same as the cowgirl, the only difference being that you will have to look the other way.

However, be careful with this position as it has been known to cause penile injuries.

10. Any Other Position That Keeps Your Legs Together

Yes, get creative!

Positions that stimulate your clit will bring you to orgasms faster.

By Emilie Schleif

Emilie Schleif is a Lifestyle Writer at Whatsdalatest, where she covers all things relationships and wellness—born and raised in La Canada Flintridge. She currently lives in Hamburg and loves running, hiking, and walking with her dog, Jasper.

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