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10 Romantic Messages That Will Make Her Wet

by | Love

Oct 20, 2022

If you’re one of the millions of guys who want to know what messages to send a woman to make her wet, then these tips are for you.

What you’ll find below are seductive messages and why they work. By the time you read to the end, you’ll know what messages to send your woman that will make her wet.

The art of texting seductively is what differentiates men who arouse women from ones who don’t. Instead of texting a woman all day, how about you text her once in a while, but make sure your texts arouse and turn her on with sexual humor and wit? Here are a number of things to text a woman which will make her wet for you.

1. Been thinking about you all day. About your boobs, I mean: I should have them in my mouth when next I see you. They feel great there, you know?

Why it works: This message will make her wet because it shows her that she has been on your mind and makes her feel special while arousing her.

Read: 10 Irresistible Things That Drive Women Crazy

2. How about I lie next to you tonight, just after making you scream my name until your throat is sore and we are high at the moment? You know, lying next to you is the best feeling ever?

Why it works: This message tells her that you enjoy her company while casually throwing in how sexually appealing she is.

3. I just returned from checking your profile. I don’t know if it is my eyes or something about you just reminds me of a bed and the many things we could do there. You look way better in real life. 

Why it works: you milk her ego in just a couple of texts. First, by telling her that she looks better in real life, you make her go: “heyyy, but I look good in pictures too!” this creates desire because she might want to prove to you that she does look better in pictures as well. By telling her that she reminds you of a bed, you give room for this desire to bloom. She will be wet when she receives this message.

Read: 10 Simple Ways to Make Sex More Interesting

4. Remember that one time when we had so great sex we just lay there laughing and making jokes about how fast the world moves? 

Why it works: Here, you show her that you enjoy sex with her and subtly hint that you want to have more of that. If the sex feels great, she too will want to have more of it, and this will make her wet.

5. Hey. I know this is going to come off as weird, but I just imagined your legs spread out, with my face buried between, my tongue working its way across your vulva, and your voice ringing in the room. 

Why it works: Women like to imagine sex; this is why they read erotic books more than men. The more you put in her head, the wetter she gets: this is why you have to be expressive as you can, joking around when you have to.

6. I am wearing that pair of shorts you love. I think I have grown a bit fatter, as it seems to be making my thighs look just a shade dark, and my penis imprint is way more obvious now. 

Why it works: Here, you are painting yourself to be the most attractive male around her. And you should be, really, if she loves you and has chosen to be exclusive with you. You can change the words in this message into ones that suit your style, and it will make your woman wet and look forward to seeing you in that short.

Read: How to Give Good Head – 10 Blow Job Tips

7. I have got a surprise for you when you are home. Not telling you what it is. But I hope you like your dinner alive, with a penis and a tongue that isn’t shy. Then, some other stuff. Kisses, bye.

Why it works: You have introduced thrill in just a couple of words. The thrill is the most important element of arousal. There has to be a longing if she is to feel that aroused and charmed. In the presence of this longing, she will get wet. Send this text to her if she is at work.

8. Hey, babe, Daddy is coming home. Please have my dinner ready. I want it served on a bed, and I want to eat it first. 

Why it works: Now, you present yourself as the genuine alpha male. “Daddy” means you are in charge. Many women, if not most, are drawn to men who are in charge. And calling her dinner? Oh, my, it does things to her you can’t imagine. Every woman wants to be her man’s dinner.

9. Random text, but sometimes I wonder what the vagina is made of, how it gets wet when it is touched, and softer too. How it just swallows dick and makes a person gasp. Sometimes, it drives me nuts. Do you ever wonder what dick is made of sometimes? 

Why it works: With this message, you are showing her that you are in tune with your sexuality and are fine with her being in tune with hers as well. You are also putting in a lot of detail: remember that women love detailed sexual expressions. For some reason, arousal is more of a mental thing for a woman than a physical one.

Read: 10 Adventurous Things You Should Try In Bed

10. Sometimes, I wonder what it will feel like to have sex in a pool. You know, anywhere that we will have to look around quite often to see if someone is watching us.

Why it works: Pay attention to “sometimes I wonder.” You are not telling her what to do. You are putting thoughts in her head. And that, my friends, is how you make a woman wet. Like the ones above, this thought promises her a thrill she has not experienced before. Thrill equals arousal! Always!


How about we go somewhere after soon and be ourselves there? Slow but loud music. Blue lights. Some drinks, and of course, loud sex. I hear that music swallows the loudness of the sex, just like how I almost swallow your boobs when we are together. Boy! Those look good!

Why it works: This message will definitely make your woman wet because it promises thrills as well and gives her a bit of confidence as you have praised her breasts. She will be wet before you know it.

Read: 10 Pleasure Points to Arouse a Woman Instantly


When texting a woman to get her wet, you have to bear in mind that women love to read detailed sexual material. This seems to be the difference between them and men, who love to watch rather than read. So, get detailed. Get sexual. Promise her a thrill, and she’ll be definitely aroused.

By Ubee

Ubong Johnson (Ubee) is a relationship expert and writer. He writes articles that cover everything from relationships and nutrition to lifestyle. His works have appeared in several literary magazines, including The Shallow Tales Review, Ngiga Review, and the Kalahari Review. He is the founder and editor of Fiction Niche.

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