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10 Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms

by | Sensual Intimacy

Oct 28, 2020

For men, why women fake orgasms while having sex is often a mystery. Women are still an enigma, and how they perform during sexual intercourse is often secret to men. In this post, we uncover the truth behind women faking orgasms.

If 6 out of every 10 women pretend to have reached a climax, then 2 out of 10 men do pretend, too—nevertheless, the reasons why women fake orgasms are what brought you here. So stay glued.

Here are ten reasons why a woman may pretend to have an orgasm.

1. Lack of exposure

It is often argued that most women do not attain their sexual peaks at all. It takes a lot of exposure for them to conquer their personal insecurity or the feeling of having other women as their rivals. 

Coitus can only get better when she is open to genuine discussion on what turns her on in bed with you. When she becomes more secure, she gets more vocal. Otherwise, she may just fake orgasms to make you feel better.

2. Societal pressure

Many women tend to live up to their sex life to an ideal based on how society, especially men, expects them to behave. Perhaps they feel that they have to perform a theatrical performance during intimacy. 

Heiko K., a guy we recently interviewed, said: “The higher the pitch of her moaning, the sweeter it gets.” 

As a result of this, some women fake orgasms.

Read: How to Tell Whether or Not a Woman’s Moans Are Fake

3. Too many sexually arousing movies

The popularity of such movies since their inception has made it very conspicuous how unpragmatic the set standards are now. Unfortunately, the stars featured in those movies and the sound effects in their videos have led a lot of people to think that that is how sex should be. 

Sometimes, the voice you hear in such clips is usually that of someone else not even in the bedroom speaking into the microphone. 

Therefore, when a woman guilty trips herself with performance issues in bed, she suddenly becomes oblivious to why she is having intercourse in the first place and begins to act.

4. Getting tipsy

This can make a woman fake orgasm as her reasoning has become distorted due to the alcohol she consumes. She becomes melodramatic. Sometimes you see her panting very loudly; sometimes, she squeezes the pillows and then screams at the top of her voice. This makes her partner thinks he is the driving force.

5. Fear of intimacy

Fear is the greatest giveaway to a woman when it comes to reaching a sexual climax. Any woman who finds trouble relating with her partner on an emotional ground would encounter this challenge during sex. Since she cannot connect sexually, she begins her own ‘animation.’ 

This is why at times, when in action and you suddenly stop to drink water, the girl lying naked in your bed is still screaming. And you are not even touching her in any way- that is weird!

Read: Understanding When A Woman Says: I’m Not In the Mood

6. She wants the sex to be over quickly

Another reason for the faux climax is that she wants the sex to be over quickly. She knows you will not stop until you see that you have satisfied her.

Women are complex creatures yet sweet like pineapples on the inside when energized. Also, many women would not want to turn you down when you are in the mood. They just want you to get the deeds done in less than 5 minutes and be off to do other things.

7. Feeling of insecurity

This makes many women fake moanings of pleasure in sexual activities. Two things are involved when it comes to being intimate with a girl. She could be anorgasmic; that is, she is incapable of reaching orgasm due to how her body functions, or she could be non-anorgasmic. 

A non-anorgasmic woman is capable of experiencing true orgasm. But have it in mind that a penis-in-vagina kind of sex will definitely not be enough for her. 

These two categories of ladies would not be far from being sexually challenged in their various romantic relationships.

8. Enhance the sexual experience

However, there are situations where a woman just needs to fake it to make it in her love life. Such women utilize this tool to enhance their sexual experience. 

In my discussion with a lady, she told me how arching her back was at a 45⁰ angle. Using dirty talks with her man actually made her sex life worthwhile. I do not see anything wrong with using fake orgasms in this scenario as positive conditioning to keep your bedroom warm. Do what works for you.

Read: 10 Reasons Why Women Love Kissing

9. Happy ending

Some men think that when a woman reaches orgasm, you feel some kind of squeezing within her privy part. This is necessarily not so for every woman as their anatomy is unique and varies from one woman to another. 

For some women at that point, it is the real orgasm she has reached that makes you feel macho, while for other women, it is not so- just some kegel exercises of squeeze and release she did to please you in bed.

10. Expert at it

Most women will surely want to stroke a man’s ego that they are really in love with sexually. Besides, she had done it before, and it worked. Consequently, it becomes a part of her whenever she is in bed. The most annoying thing here is she is deriving little or no pleasure from you at all.

Read: 10 Reasons Why Some Women Like Tall Men

Bottom Line

Two committed partners can actually get sexually satisfied in their relationships if they are willing to have honest communication on what can be done to reinforce trust and intimacy. Ultimately helping women to bid fake orgasms goodbye.

By Rachael Ukpebor

Rachael Ukpebor is an Editorial Assistant for Whatsdalatest. She graduated with honours from the University of Benin with a degree in Sociology and Anthropology. She covers beauty, relationship, and lifestyle topics at WDS, everything from best skincare and makeup hacks, to relationships. Her favourite music is Lovin' You by Minnie Riperton.

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